About 2 years ago, I aquired what I refer to as "real" friends. The 2 friends I had now were pretty much the only people that I was around that didnt kick the crap out of me all the time, steal my money, or talk smack about me. They even offered to pay me for gas most of the time. Anyways that isnt really the question I had. I'm starting to realize that friendship may be more than a burnen that it is worth, we are starting to argue all the time (usually over something stupid) and see each other less and less, maybe caring is really a weakness. I'm a bit sick of having friends, at least thats the way I feel now, it sounds odd but I'm starting to miss the days when I was ignored by everyone, and just stayed in my room forever.
I've been reading a book I was reffered to off this site, called solitute:return to the inner self. Its a rather intresting book, stating therioes about why humans are such soloicatial beings. Was friendship just a old way of staying alive (to keep from being...
2006-06-19 10:22:20 · 4 answers · asked by D 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
eaten?). I realize that there really wasnt anything wrong with me before, when I had no friends at all and never talked to anyone. It was everyone else that had the problem. Does anyone else feel like friendship is somewhat of a one way street? And that its not really worth as much as people think it is?
2006-06-19 10:23:25 · update #1
To be honest, I sort of wish I never learned money couldnt buy happiness or love or anything else. Material items always gave me joy.
2006-06-19 10:30:27 · update #2
Contact no where near the box
1) You didn’t fully read the question OR you ignored the part where I actually asked the question
2) You didn't answer the question which I have retyped for you below, try reading the entire question next time.
Does anyone else feel like friendship is somewhat of a one way street? And that its not really worth as much as people think it is?
3)Typing a bunch of complex words does not mean your theories (speaking of which, if you have a theory on the way I act as a person, why did you not provide any evidence that your theories are correct? Did you study the matter and come up with a conclusion?) are correct, an example would be saying that because of the statement you made, you a person on over analytical thinking, as well as one who ALWAYS has to strive to be right, and gets frustrated whenever they are wrong. Try over analyzing the material that was presented before you.
2006-06-19 12:19:44 · update #3
thats preatty bad.
2006-06-19 10:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by blackdragon12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're reiterating the aspect of loneliness in a satirical way. It sounds like you're looking for attention which is not what loners usually like to do. That said, I'm telling you, you don't sound like you want to be a loner. You WANT friends. You NEED friends. You need them to be your friends at times like these. When you start looking for sympathy from people (on-line) you've never met, then you're subconsciously rebelling out of your shell and trying to make friends by trying to get them to play the pity card, which isn't going to work with the kind of friends you're looking for. You want friends that are emotionally strong so they can pick you up when you're down. The thing is, that's what your potential friends want from you. So instead of asking a whole bunch of nobodys what's wrong with you, ASK YOUR SELF: HOW YOU CAN FIX IT. Think positively. Try and enjoy what little time you have. If you can beat yourself up to this extent, think about what you can do with your energy if directed positively.
Looks like I hit a nerve.
Complex words? That's how I speak. Don't like it? Don't read it.
2006-06-19 18:39:52 · answer #2 · answered by 1/6,833,020,409 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is worth everything, but we go through MANY!! I tell my son this all the time. I only have 1 friend still from 5th grade and 1 still from HS. I have more friends from my college and adult years now. Friends are like siblings and/or extensions of ourselves. Sooner or later you get bored, irritated, and/or fighting with them because of this. So, you're allowed to move on from friends to friends, but maybe you should just try easing up a bit first. Don't hang-out everyday or weekend, Try to mix it up with others or just be a lone wolf some weekends. Never be afraid either way, friends and family help us all through life. We all need that!!!
2006-06-19 17:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friendship is definitely a 2-way street. I'm sorry I can't answer your question but 'real' friends and long friendships do exist. I know people who have kept in touch with each through the years. It is my wish that you find true friendship. Please don't give up. We all need friends.
2006-06-19 17:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by Sati 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋