Family & Relationships - 19 June 2006

My sister cheated on her boyfriend of 8yrs. Well...he finally found out & now they can't seem to get past it. She talks to people(friends,family,etc.)about the situation & almost everyone says that there must have been something lacking in her relationship, or there must have been something she was getting from the other person that her boyfriend wasn't giving to her in order for her to feel the need to go to someone else. Anytime she defends her acts with that reason, her boyfriend just says that is a b.s excuse to f... around on him & treat him like he is her toy. He frequently uses the analogy..it's like having a toy,playing with it when you want, & then putting it back on the shelf when you don't feel like playing with it anymore. I have no idea what to tell her when she asks me what I think about the whole thing. I don't know. My guess is that there had to be something missing there for her to be wanting or needing attention from someone else. What do you think?

2006-06-19 10:45:37 · 12 answers · asked by DarkStar 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 10:45:36 · 14 answers · asked by newfieshort 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

im in love with this guy i was ingaged to last year but i got stupid and left befor the wedding but i still love him. and now he has somone new what can i do to get his heart back

2006-06-19 10:45:14 · 11 answers · asked by babyangel_1705 1 in Singles & Dating

ok, ya, so I had a one night stand.. and it was good... it was like something out of Penthouse Forum :)

But now, I don't really want to see him again. He calls, and I don't answer, but I can't keep avoiding him without changing my number or making up some good excuse.

Just so you know, don't tell me to "just tell him the TRUTH" that I just don't want to see him again, cause I can't do that. It's just me... maybe I am a chicken, but please I need some very good, believable, creative excuses here.

And possibly for the future... ;)

This is one I thought of:
"my husband is back in town..." "I didn't know you were married.." "ya, neither did I".. lol

2006-06-19 10:44:45 · 16 answers · asked by xxxcariooo 3 in Singles & Dating

how do i find him?

2006-06-19 10:43:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend and i arein a fight with this other girl.my friend told me a lot of her secrets even when i havent asked her too. is it fair if i told her one secret that the other girl said about her?cuz she wants to know one sooo bad.and i think its unfair if i dont.plz help. but i did already yesterday :(

2006-06-19 10:43:16 · 19 answers · asked by clarise 1 in Friends

my 40 year old son & his girlfriend will not leave my house the police stated nothing can be done I need help here

2006-06-19 10:42:07 · 3 answers · asked by bigal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I really like this chick in my 3rd period, but now schools out!!!!! I really don't think she likes me, so I dunno what to do!!!

2006-06-19 10:41:21 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i went to tha mall day before yesterday an i seen this boy name trishtian,someone i hve new 4 a while now an we are jus now meatin up again an we switched numbers an we were talkin about how when we first meet weliked each other an he asked me do i remember tha day he picked me up an looked in my eyes.an he was liked he thought he would neva see me eva again..tha question is should i tell him i wanna go wit him or let him ask me???????????

2006-06-19 10:41:17 · 8 answers · asked by pooh bear 2 in Singles & Dating

just being random lol

2006-06-19 10:40:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 10:40:28 · 8 answers · asked by lola 1 in Friends

my 40 year old son & his girlfriend will not leave my house the police stated nothing can be done I need help here

2006-06-19 10:40:15 · 4 answers · asked by bigal 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

confused..

2006-06-19 10:39:23 · 4 answers · asked by clarise 1 in Friends

2006-06-19 10:38:56 · 19 answers · asked by lola 1 in Friends

Phone number for Kathy Pickell in Carthage, TENN

2006-06-19 10:38:27 · 4 answers · asked by charlesdboddie 1 in Friends

my girlfriend is on the blob(period)what do i do screw back for the brown? you decide?

2006-06-19 10:38:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to stop someone elses wedding, like your ex- girlfriend before she becomes your rival's wife.

2006-06-19 10:37:03 · 13 answers · asked by Kyle J 1 in Weddings

2006-06-19 10:36:30 · 21 answers · asked by ray 5 in Family

I am trying to lead a healthy life doggonit.

2006-06-19 10:36:23 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

well i had this freind that is going out with my xboyfriend behind my back and she dosent know that i know. my x tells me that he dosent like her but he dosent want to hurt her. what should i do?

2006-06-19 10:35:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I divorced my ex in Oct 05 after he beat the crap out of me and almost killed me. He is now in prison for 15 years for attempted strangulation and attempted battery. I was awarded full custody of my daughter with no visitation for him on the off chance he makes it out of prison in less than 15 years. His family has hated me and ignored me for years and has ignored my daughter as well. At his sentencing his father let me know the family thought it was my fault that he was in there. They have refused contact with my daughter or me since then, but have hired an attorney to see if they can gain some custody in leiu of my ex. They are going for anything they can on it and are trying to press the grandparent thing now. They live in a state that is famous for taking children away and awarding custody while the kids are visiting in this state. Does anyone know anything about this type of thing? My attorney is checking into it, but I want to know now since this is my daughter.

2006-06-19 10:35:17 · 8 answers · asked by wyldfyre 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-06-19 10:35:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-06-19 10:35:06 · 11 answers · asked by mnewton1962 1 in Family

I'm just the same as every one of them!!!!!

2006-06-19 10:33:48 · 28 answers · asked by truthpeace248 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-06-19 10:33:39 · 27 answers · asked by Pablo 2 in Friends

I wanted to talk to my gf's friends to get to know her better as im planning to propose marriage to her.I made-up another name making it seem like its my friend spoke to her asking her to introduce me to her friends.I did get introductions.I have spoken to them on phone/chatted online about my gf.My gf wasnt in touch in 2 months with me.On Saturday her friend gave me number to call but calling that number i got my gf.I pretended to be my friend she said wrong number i said her friend had given that number to call then abruptly hung up!
1.Why do u think her friend gave me number on calling it was my gf?She was surprised as me.
2.Do u think my gf realised its me(i changed my voice & pretended to be my friend)?
3.What do u think my gf will do?

2006-06-19 10:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

okay i have a friend who all of a sudden has been depressed and she wont eat or anything (btw she is not fat) and she's been acting very strange and different then usual, and acting depressed. She talks a lot about thoughts of commiting suicide and she recently told me she tried overdosing and sliting wrists. I really can't take losing another friend and she means a lot to me, i don't want to see her go but she doesn't listen and she won't get help. What should I do other than call kids help phone becuz i will do that.. so what should i do????? plz plz plz plz plz plz plz help, im desperate for help right now, it'll mean soooooooooooooo much for your help thx...

2006-06-19 10:33:07 · 10 answers · asked by Kelsey's Mommy<3 4 in Friends

without getting her mad

2006-06-19 10:31:31 · 6 answers · asked by lola 1 in Friends

My finances ex send me a message on myspace acct. she started telling me thing about there relationship and she gave me her number to call her so we can discuss it. Should i call her or just ignore her? my fiance has told me everything about her and about there relatioship. She said she wanted to tell me what he is really like dont know what to do please help?? (I will report mean answers!!!)

2006-06-19 10:31:11 · 12 answers · asked by Becky 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im a big girl and I was wondering if there were any guys out there who prefer them or guys who dont care about what a girl looks like but about personalities? it seems like all guys care about is tiny skinny models and I was just wondering if there were any different guys out there.

2006-06-19 10:30:43 · 34 answers · asked by 128333 4 in Singles & Dating