I wanted to talk to my gf's friends to get to know her better as im planning to propose marriage to her.I made-up another name making it seem like its my friend spoke to her asking her to introduce me to her friends.I did get introductions.I have spoken to them on phone/chatted online about my gf.My gf wasnt in touch in 2 months with me.On Saturday her friend gave me number to call but calling that number i got my gf.I pretended to be my friend she said wrong number i said her friend had given that number to call then abruptly hung up!
1.Why do u think her friend gave me number on calling it was my gf?She was surprised as me.
2.Do u think my gf realised its me(i changed my voice & pretended to be my friend)?
3.What do u think my gf will do?
2006-06-19 10:33:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im not interested in her friends.I spoke over phone/chatted.I love her & dont want to loose her.I wanted to know about her before proposing marriage.
2006-06-19 10:35:31 · update #1
1.her friend is suspicious of u she senses ur pretending to talk and chat.ur girl must be surprised by ur call since she knows u as ur friend as u pretended lol
2.ur gf might have not realised but ur gfs friend surely realises something is wrong
3.ur gf seems to be very innocent and naive u got a good girl in ur hands love her and propose marriage to her
2006-06-21 05:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by docfreudianslip 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't matter what happened when you called and hung up. If she thought it was you, well, you look like an idiot for not being able to talk to her directly. If she didn't think it was you, you've lost nothing. However, I agree with some of the answers you've already gotten: You are doing some weird stuff by "investigating" her by quizzing her friends rather than going out with her for a long time and seeing where this takes you. The way you are behaving, you are way too immature to get married. You need to see a guidance counselor or a psychologist or psychiatrist right away. If you have any friends, talk to them about what you are doing. They should be able to set you straight. Get real.
2006-06-19 13:30:54 · answer #2 · answered by E L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know dude but from what I get from your rant, you are setting up a deceitful atmosphere and may not intend to. you may have altruistic intentions but all this calling and changing your voice seems flakey. the only way to know her better is to experience her company. how can others tell you about her? that would be their perception of her. people that answer these questions aren't psychic, they have no clue why she hung up the phone. wasn't in touch for 2 months, are you sure she is still your g/f, that seems like a long time to stay out of touch with a g/f. you might ought to rethink that proposal. it may not play out as you plan. good luck.....
2006-06-19 13:30:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Following your story is very confusing. It doesn't sound like you have a real relationship with your girlfriend so why are you thinking marriage?? You are not dating, going steady or engaged. What is the other girl doing getting involved and why are you involving her. Be a man and ask the girlfriend out on a real date. But if she wasn't in touch with you for 2 months, meet another girl. You all sound like junior high school age.
2006-06-19 13:29:51 · answer #4 · answered by Nunya B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best way to get to really know someone....is to spend time with them. That doenst mean every waking moment, but take some time out to spend some quality time with her. Go to the park, dinner,movies etc. Places that you will be able to talk and get to know each others likes and dislikes. That way you can make sure that marriage is what both of you really want before you go into it headfirst and end up regretting it.
2006-06-19 10:57:01 · answer #5 · answered by blake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By sneaking around and asking her friends, you've proven you can't trust her and you can't be trusted to be upfront.
This 'marriage' is doomed before it even begins.
Next time - be a man. Be upfront. Be honest.
If you need other peoples' opinions of this girl in order to marry her, then you are probably not emotionally secure or confident enough to even be thinking of marriage.
Take some time to grow up. Then worry about proposals.
~Maxie
2006-06-19 14:54:25 · answer #6 · answered by Maxie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about getting to know your girlfriend by spending time with her, asking questions, etc. Why do you need to contact her friends about her? That's probably why her friend gave you her number....if you want to know so much about her, ASK HER. Why would you even plan on proposing to someone that you don't have the balls to talk to and learn about?!
2006-06-19 11:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am very very confused by your question... all I can say is Huh ?
do you not Know your gf?? why wasnt she in touch with you for 2 months? is she an online girlfriend? Im really lost....
2006-06-19 13:31:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jackie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find her, take a ring with you and first talk to her, tell her that you are seriouse about being with her and you just wanted to know more about her so you talked to her friends. then sit down with her and say everything to her obout how much you love her and how much she has changed your life. tell her that you are ready to take your relationship to the next level that you dont want to spend another moment in life without her pull out the ring and ask her to marry you. good luck!
2006-06-19 10:57:44 · answer #9 · answered by Blonds Rock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love her , why are you treating her like that, I dont think you understand marriage at all, you are not ready for it, If only I know this,girl , I'll tell her to end this dumb relationship immediately.
2006-06-19 13:39:40 · answer #10 · answered by zaki1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋