My finances ex send me a message on myspace acct. she started telling me thing about there relationship and she gave me her number to call her so we can discuss it. Should i call her or just ignore her? my fiance has told me everything about her and about there relatioship. She said she wanted to tell me what he is really like dont know what to do please help?? (I will report mean answers!!!)
2006-06-19 10:31:11 · 12 answers · asked by Becky 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hi,
I think that you really need to look in your heart and ask yoursef, "Do I love and trust my fiance with all of my heart?" If you do, then leave the ex be and just go on with your life. If there is any hesitation on your part when you ask that question above, then I would encourage you to hear her out. But keep in mind that the ex is still a woman. Women can be ruthless when it comes to fighting for a man.
I'm a man, actually, not just a man. I am a man's man. Not to brag about how manly I am, but just to give you an idea of how well I understand guys. I can tell you that if you hear the ex out, your fiance will be upset. Any guy would. I am also very sensitive to a woman's feelings by the way...
I can understand how you feel. And when some outsider who had relations with the person you are about to marry pops up, of course you will have curious thoughts in your head. The most important thing is that if you do give her a chance to fill your head with what she has to say, be cautious. You do not know her true intentions and you do not know if what she says to you will be pleasant or honest. I can almost garuntee that it will be some sort of slander.
Hope this helps....
2006-06-19 10:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by NeverLoose 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your finance has told you his side there is always two sides to every story. I think you should call her, no don't take every thing she says for face value but take the stories of both and read between the lines you never know she might save you from making a big mistake. I know you don't want to hear anything bad but keep open minded.
2006-06-19 10:37:47 · answer #2 · answered by 4X4 Woman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gees, see what she has to say. speak to your fiance. and make up your mind if you're going to let this woman get in between you two. You know...its not you and her or her and him for the rest of your life it's YOU and HIM. so make that clear, if neither of them want to actually tone down and like get over each other, I would question if you're with the right man.
Sorry. Irritating situation. Obviously understanding part of your pain. Feel it girl, and don't let the rat play with the cat. He's your prize.
2006-06-19 10:59:11 · answer #3 · answered by Light W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should take it as a consideration. since you have heard about your finance's side, call her up and listen to her and see what she has to say. Though don't be swayed or even take it seriously by her words. She might try to get back your finance or even screw up your relationship with him. don't take her too seriously, give it a thought.
2006-06-19 10:59:30 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even although you probably did deliver the puppy to them, when you care that a lot, you will have to surely name. Next time check out developing more than one interviews with the humans and take a look at doing heritage tests. Contact the safe haven ASAP.
2016-08-28 09:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by darland 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her.. she is just going to tell you things to probably break your relationship up between you and your finance..
2006-06-19 10:36:03 · answer #6 · answered by Lisa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i guess you should call her and w/e she says to you then you should talk with your boyfriend about that because maybe she will try and say some stuff to try and break you and your fiance up but also its important that you talk with your boyfriend about what she tells you and if you should call her or not well thats up to you if you really think you have a need to talk to her or if you trust your boyfriend enough not to care about what she says
2006-06-19 10:37:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would recommend talking to you finance and discuss if he sees any issues with you talking to her.
If he is okay then you should talk to her.
I would recommend being open in your relationship and go from there.
2006-06-19 10:37:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so talk to her, why not? you never know what you may learn, and you're fiance will wonder too, I bet! never hurts to talk, and if it's over the phone and she gets nasty you can just hang up. Don't worry so much!
2006-06-19 10:37:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont call her. If you plan on marrying this guy, then you should have enough love & trust in him, to have already filled you in, so be content with what he has told you. This girl is obviously trying to cause trouble, so dont welcome it!
2006-06-19 10:40:06 · answer #10 · answered by Katz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋