my friend and i arein a fight with this other girl.my friend told me a lot of her secrets even when i havent asked her too. is it fair if i told her one secret that the other girl said about her?cuz she wants to know one sooo bad.and i think its unfair if i dont.plz help. but i did already yesterday :(
2006-06-19 10:43:16 · 19 answers · asked by clarise 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yes
2006-06-19 10:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it's important to maintain the trust you have between you and your friends. If they tell you something privately that doesn't directly affect somebody, like if they told you they were going to hurt somebody, you might want to tell somebody, but if they told you something private that if it got out it could hurt them in some way, then I would have to say you shouldn't tell anyone about it.
Telling secrets is an effective way to lose trust from friends and even lose friends, I don't reccomend breaking their confidence in you in the future, it's just not a cool thing to do.
Hope everything turns out okay for you.
2006-06-19 17:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Carolina Kitten 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Secrets are given to you in confidence. Someone trusts you to hold a secret. If you betray that trust, you are not being a friend. Never reveal secrets unless by not doing so, someone could be hurt. For example, if a friend told you she was going to kill herself or harm another person, that would be a secret you must tell. Otherwise, their blood is on your hands.
2006-06-19 17:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Dr. Doom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand.. If you're trying to say,"Someone told a secret to you about your friend, and it will hurt your friend's feelings? And your friends want to know what the secret is?"
Well, she asked! I would tell her anyway.. But it is a secret.. So I wouldn't know what to do.. So why did I replied... The world may never know..
2006-06-19 17:48:11 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Chamillitary Amberleé♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you already did it, then why are you asking. it's rarely ok to betray people by telling their secrets, but in some instances it is ok, like if it could save someones life or help someone get out of a bad situation (aka cheating man). But, if it's about personality or looks or something superficial, then I wouldn't have done it.
2006-06-19 17:46:47 · answer #5 · answered by babe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have already told her the secret, so its too late now, so why ask the question from us?
Yes, you blew it....
In the future remember what a secret is, it is something you tell NO ONE you keep it to yourself no matter if they yank your nails out with a pair of pliers to get you to tell !!!
2006-06-19 17:49:19 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never tell a secret. If the person that told you the secret wants others to know, let her tell them herself.
2006-06-19 17:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
look i personally think that no thing is a secret when you share it..
a secret is something deep in your heart.
but yes, you cant live without sharing wht you think with others...
and if you trust someone to the point of no return then when you share anything with that person, you think you are sharing it with yourself...and that's wat i feel.. Thank God,there are sencere ppl still in this world...be them few, but there are... take care
2006-06-19 17:49:27 · answer #8 · answered by HaPPy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well sometimes when you tell ur bfriend secrets they use them against you I would be fair and just be like I don't want to hear nothing else from both of them be like why won't u tell her to her face
2006-06-19 17:53:06 · answer #9 · answered by x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, do u consider your self as a good friend a good friend doesn't say secrets about each other whats wrong with you?
2006-06-19 17:47:33 · answer #10 · answered by gabby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are the friends for. But the rule is friendship has to be trust able.
2006-06-19 17:46:57 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋