well i had this freind that is going out with my xboyfriend behind my back and she dosent know that i know. my x tells me that he dosent like her but he dosent want to hurt her. what should i do?
2006-06-19 10:35:30 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well... she is wrong, but he is your EX. Try to let go, and don't worry about it. One of the hardest lessons to learn in life is that everyone who says that they care about you...don't, and everyone does not have your best interest at heart. Love is tricky and can drive you insane. Don't believe for one second that he is trying to not hurt her feelings....he obviously didn't care about hurting your feelings. Did he all of a sudden get a self conscious? Either way..."all is fair in love and war," learn from the situation and move on.
2006-06-19 10:48:49 · answer #1 · answered by lynnotnet 1 · 11⤊ 1⤋
Do you want to be in the middle of it? And how do you know that your EX saying the truth?
Don't react at all it's not your business anymore what is going on in your ex's life and certainly you don't have to worry about the friend who go behind your back.
So just try to stay away from her without any explanations.
You are better than that.
P.S. You can give her a chance to explain what is going on and go from there (if it's your best friend).
2006-06-19 17:42:34 · answer #2 · answered by chigirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to break the news to you. But he should have never agreed to go with her in the first place and i think she's less of a friend for wanting to be with your ex, That is the #1 rule among female friends.
2006-06-19 17:43:02 · answer #3 · answered by hersheyskissys01 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this guy doesn't want to hurt her that would mean that he is sensitive right???
Then why isn't he being sensitive to YOUR emotions too?
Because he doesn't really care about any ones feelings!! (Besides his own obviously)
Let him go and find a better friend and boyfriend.
Your better than the both of them.
Keep your chin up sweety!
2006-06-19 17:42:10 · answer #4 · answered by EnVy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it completely. Let them both figure it out on their own. Confront your friend about her seeing your ex behind your back but leave the relationship issues between the two of them alone.
2006-06-19 17:38:06 · answer #5 · answered by melspags6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't say or do anything. Everything will come out in the open about these 2 eventually.
2006-06-19 17:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the friend and the x boyfriend. He obviously doesn't respect your feelings to much if he cares more about what she thinks over you. He is just playing with you and your emotions.
2006-06-19 17:38:38 · answer #7 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of both of them. She is stabbing you in the back and he is lying to you. No guy will EVER stay with a girl not to hurt her.
2006-06-19 17:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it and when he grows some balls and kicks her to the curb you can step back and say it's karma for her diddeling your ex behind your back.
2006-06-19 17:38:26 · answer #9 · answered by LIL NIX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let them be together and if she thinks she cant tell you because she thinks you would be mad? well then you still have feelings for the guy. otherwise a true friend will let her find her own happiness..right? maybe THEY were meant to be together? ya never know......
2006-06-19 17:39:23 · answer #10 · answered by ShannL 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋