Do guys like big girls?

Question

Im a big girl and I was wondering if there were any guys out there who prefer them or guys who dont care about what a girl looks like but about personalities? it seems like all guys care about is tiny skinny models and I was just wondering if there were any different guys out there.

Answer 1

There are some guys who do. It really just depends on the guy. Being a big girl doesn't mean you are less attractive. It should be what on the inside that counts.

Answer 2

You should just do you. Be confident in EVERYTHING that you do, from your look to your personality. There are a few guys who are only into thin girls, but the majority of guys will like you for the person you are. So if you're confident then your inner beauty will shine through and will enhance your outter beauty no matter what size you are. Oh and please never ever ever get so down on yourself that you start to settle. The mark of true charachter is holding out for what you KNOW that you want, not settling for the first guy who meets half of the requirements. Remember, 50% is still an F.

Answer 3

It's all about personal preference. The way you have a certain type of guy you like..there are men who do like big girls who would not even look at a skinny girl...It depends on what they like. Some guys like blondes...some like red-heads...So it all works the same...So am sure you'll meet a great guy who will appreciate you and care about you just the way you are. Don't worry about the dumb comments or the people who have no sense.

Answer 4

There are people in this world that have some sort of innate fear of body fat in any form. They are best ignored. I find 70% of skinny girls have extremely annoying personalities, and they also think they are really hot because they are thin. But there is alot more to being sexy than the physical. It's a demeanor, not a look, I am sure you look fine. Oh, and one more thing. Skinny girls tend to have the flat/no *** at all syndrome, which is kinda gross. Lots of skinny girls at my university look like they are in the 9th grade, that's not a good thing. So don't worry about it. If it's really bugging your self esteem you can email me or IM me and we can talk. Good Luck finding the right guy, and don't give yourself to just anyone.

Answer 5

Being big is one thing. If you are under 40 years if age and more than 50 pounds overweight, then people assume that you dont care abouot how you look, because something has gone wrong way to early in your life.

I will tell you that I dont like women that are skinny as a rail but on the other hand I am not going to roll around in bed with someone that is over 50 pounds overweight because things just get to get clumsy and awkward, and makes things difficult.

Answer 6

There are men out there that like big girls. In today's society we put way too much emphasis on what is on the outside, and it is hurtful to people of different shapes and sizes. What usually happens is that after time men get tired of shallow skinny women, and they broaden their horizons a little bit. Not to say that all good looking, attractive "skinny" women are shallow, or stuck on their selves. Just take care of yourself, and always be you! It will happen for you!

Answer 7

There are guys who specifically like big girls.
Some guys will approach big girls because they believe they are often ignored and will therefor be an easier lay - and often they will be correct. (And it's also true that they are often more SKILLED in the bedroom because of the additional experience).
I have learned that the less STEREOTYPICALLY ATTRACTIVE women are often alot nicer... I fell in love with a girl who's a foot shorter than me and almost double my weight. I know how wonderful it can be.
But losing weight WILL get you more guys - you're lucky, men will persue and fawn over you, but the opposite is not true for us.
In any case good luck. I hope the truth didn't hurt too much, but you did ask for it.

And hey - you CAN lose weight. My girl did. You have to want it, you have to be disciplined, and you have to work and stick to it.

Answer 8

I'm a thick girl too, and yeah there are some guys out there who only like the skinny girls, there are guys who secretly like bigger girls and then there are the ones who don't care. I have big boobs to match my body, but I also carry myself with confidence and try to stay true to myself. Never compromise yourself for anyone.

Besides most men tend to like the bigger girls once they've had them in bed. We're better lovers because we work it twice as hard.

Answer 9

Listen girl! I took a look at the replies before I responded and I just wanted to say that there was a lot of love sent your way. I also wanted to let you know that as a plus size woman myself. There is love for the thick chicks, phatty girls and all that in this world. You'll never hear men openly say that they are into us or are attracted but they're there trust me. If you feel better in an all plus size community with men who are admirers of plus size women try Large Encounters, BABS BBW, and they also have Bigger & Better Thangs Ent. All these groups invite plus size men & women and their admirers out to come party & mingle. So check them out and see what happens for you! I'll close by saying 1 thing, screw the haters. Because hate stems from ignorance and fear. And we teach each other to fear the unknown. And when you fear something strongly enough you grow to hate it. So don't ever let anyone's hate steal your joy! They hatin you because they ain't you! ;)

Answer 10

I do! (They've got some good pus*y)

I hate how guys, never give big women any play or game-time. There is a lot of pretty and sexy Big women, not out in the game, because no dudes are holla'n!

Big People need love too... F*ck Skinny MothaF*ckers!