ok, ya, so I had a one night stand.. and it was good... it was like something out of Penthouse Forum :)
But now, I don't really want to see him again. He calls, and I don't answer, but I can't keep avoiding him without changing my number or making up some good excuse.
Just so you know, don't tell me to "just tell him the TRUTH" that I just don't want to see him again, cause I can't do that. It's just me... maybe I am a chicken, but please I need some very good, believable, creative excuses here.
And possibly for the future... ;)
This is one I thought of:
"my husband is back in town..." "I didn't know you were married.." "ya, neither did I".. lol
2006-06-19 10:44:45 · 16 answers · asked by xxxcariooo 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dance Diva--this guy I had the one stand with was a cop... so that's out.. :D
2006-06-19 10:53:01 · update #1
Tell him your knocked up............or just keep ignoring his calls. He'll get the picture eventually and give up
2006-06-19 10:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I've had that happen. The guy was great on the dancefloor and pretty good in bed. But when he opened his mouth all i could think was "please make it stop!!"
Look, from past experience I'm tellin ya... there's no easy way to do it. You may just have to ignore him. That's what I had to do. No amount of reasoning or explaining or being nice got through to this guy. He kept guilt-tripping, calling, even writing poetry. Would be okay except for one thing: I didn't want him!!
So, my advice is this: Try to explain to him that you're not interested in a real relationship with him. If he still can't accept that, ignore him. Simple as that. I know it can make you feel kinda bad and "easier said than done," but trust me.... you'll feel better when the drama is gone.
2006-06-19 11:09:50 · answer #2 · answered by Holly 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-14 23:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was going to say just to have one of your guy friends answer the phone, or be standing in the background yelling "Who is that " when you answer the phone, and then tell him you have to go. Now that you say he is a cop though, I would be careful, cause you don't want to get a friend in to trouble. Anyway, I did that for a friend, and his one night stand quit calling. That way you aren't lying or anything, and you can avoid him too. Good luck with whatever you do.
2006-06-19 11:18:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lisa G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you got to much going on right now and you can't handle a a relationship. You can also tell him that you are trying to get right with God and what you guys experienced reminds you of how bad you have sinned. Or do what the hell I did, move!! Don't answer the phone. He will get the hint sooner or later. Not unless you got a stalker on your hands like I did. This fool even started to email me and ask me why I won't talk to him. Long story. I think he may have got the hint since I haven't responded to that either.
2006-06-19 10:57:23 · answer #5 · answered by adkfoaiefnafedw 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is that you do not owe this guy an excuse at all.
It is not your fault he caught feelings!
Just ignore him and he'll go away.
If he traps you somehow and forces you to tell him why you are treating him like this THEN you will have to tell him the deal.
Until then just move on and I am sure eventually he will get the pic.
2006-06-19 10:52:01 · answer #6 · answered by crystlizm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WTF this is some kind of crazy...why don't you invite him over and get drunk as hell and throw up on him when he tries to kiss ya....he was a cop?....man I think you should get him to come by in his cruiser and tell him you have to have a ride and then start doing the siren and lights and crap....or just tell him he might want to see a DR....man this is to much....LOL....forum stuff huh?? Tell me about it!!!
2006-06-19 12:40:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lie like you have never lied before. come up with something that is so out of the box. like that your husband works for police and is a sharp shooter
2006-06-19 10:50:05 · answer #8 · answered by Dance Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him when you know he is not home and leave a message. Or you can pretend to be your twin sister and say "she always sleeping around and telling them that its you". You gotta tell him something...
2006-06-19 10:59:31 · answer #9 · answered by carmelbrown2001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"The other night was really nice. But it made me realize that I"m not in a place in my life right now to handle a relationship."
End with the classic: "It's not you, it's me"
2006-06-19 10:52:44 · answer #10 · answered by bad_girlfriend? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ey dont do that. it seems he really liks u, so y dont u lik him? wel, if u dont wanna tel him n yet not date him, then try this. its jacked up but hea: get one of ur friends 2 start dating him so she can keep him occupied so he wont call u. or juss keep airing him...
2006-06-19 10:48:37 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋