I dated my husbands best friend before I met him, and well we are all still really good friends. But I just resentally found out that he had been telling our group that I was some syco girlfriend who wouldnt stop talking about marriage, when he was the one who was doing all the talking. now I havent said anything, but I dont know if i should, should I risk a good friendship just to prove I am in the right? what should I do?
2006-06-19 10:27:11 · 10 answers · asked by JOJO 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex is still best friends with my husband and all my other friends that we hang out with, so I still have to deal with him.
2006-06-19 10:31:40 · update #1
i would say something. bc thats wrong and making u look bad. that's not fair. i dont c why guys do that ****. that has happened to me before w sum *** i WAS married to, and it got me SOOO mad, and ppl beleived him. i had to prove nothing to no one, but it drove me nuts they all believed him. guys are bitches. but tell ur husband and he should stick up for you if he is a man, right?
2006-06-19 10:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by kkaze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd talk to him directly. Tell him that you've been hearing these things and that you would like him to stop. Don't point fingers, just ask him to keep the past in the past, or else the friendship will have to end. (Because, in all honestly, he's not being a friend.)
2006-06-19 17:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't bother, if someone asks you tell them the truth (but don't any of these good friends already know what happened), either way it will just start an awful back biting story telling game that you can't win, tell your husband and beyond him dont worry about anyone else.
2006-06-19 17:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by dappersmom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you should just leave it alone if you guys have a friendship that ood just let him talk. It will come back on him.
2006-06-19 17:32:49 · answer #4 · answered by Tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore it and move on.
Try the five year rule:
If it wont matter in five years get over it.
It is something that has helped me get past alot of silly worries in my life.
Live, Laugh and Love!
Mandi
2006-06-19 17:31:56 · answer #5 · answered by Mandi of the Pants 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who the hell care about your ex, if you are married then forget about your ex, let him talk, let his big mouth run like hell, just focus on your husband and your life together not on a jacckass like your ex.
2006-06-19 17:41:43 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aren't u married now? why do u even care about ur ex??!
2006-06-19 17:30:09 · answer #7 · answered by the freakin' analyst 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-06-19 17:30:31 · answer #8 · answered by honey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him some about hiself
2006-06-19 17:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
say **** you *** hole that isnt true
2006-06-19 17:31:55 · answer #10 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋