ok so all my friends tell me to all the time but its hard because he is so sweet but he isnt the best boyfriend. we never really see each other and rarely talk on the phone and i dont even feel like i have a boyfriend because we NEVER talk or see each other anymore. when we first started hanging out he called me a lot and we hung out but now he never calls and i dont want to call him and be like the "clingy girlfriend" i just want to hang out with him at leat once every week i dont see the crime in that but he always says he is grounded (okok so he has gotten in trouble with police but who dosnt once in their life?) but i have tried breaking up with him twice but it never works for some wierd reason......... and if i do break up with him i still want to be friends because we have been friends for a long time
2006-06-19 10:28:59 · 15 answers · asked by kiss the cook 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What do you mean break up ,,it sounds like you haven't been his girlfriend for some time now, and why in the hell are you worried about what your friends say or think,, they don't run your life or pay your bills,, be independent, tell him and all of them to kiss your a** ,,and go out and find some real friends !!!
2006-06-19 10:39:35 · answer #1 · answered by john l 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you're on the young side (say under 18), if so, there are lots of other fish in the sea.
If you're over 18; there are lots of other fish in the sea.
Sure it'll hurt, but you'll both get over it and move on. So get over it and move on.
Lastly, do you really want to be friends with some one who doesn't call or see you? That sounds a bit fishy and also like you're being taken for granted. Don't be.
2006-06-19 10:35:19 · answer #2 · answered by Mad Jim 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel you should break up go break up. There is no crime to that and plus, I think he's really not doing anything. If he is really grounded maybe you should tell him to work with the system not oppose the system.
2006-06-19 10:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up with him whats the point of u going out with some u never talk 2 or that u never see.......well i hope this helps
2006-06-19 10:35:38 · answer #4 · answered by diablita 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should talk to him and ask him if he is serious about having a real relation ship. if says that he is happy how it is now, then tell him you want to be with him more and spend more time together. if he denies then dump him you want a closer relationship, but if he says he will, give him a chance. boys that care will try to be with you, you just have to give him the chance he needs.
2006-06-19 10:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by rika82dynamite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but most guys don't want to "just be friends" so be ready that if you do break up with him. It's over... completely!
2006-06-19 10:32:51 · answer #6 · answered by brkeng 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you break up with someone that is not yours in the first place?
2006-06-19 10:32:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NENA, WHAT I SUGGESTED YOU TO DO IS TO BREAK UP WITH HIM BECAUSE HE IS ONLY PLAYING WITH YOU. AND PROBABLY HE HAS ANOTHER GIRLFRIEND PROBABLY THAT WHY HE DONT WANT TO GO OUT WITH YOU AND HE IS MAKING ALL THOSE EXCUSES. TRUST ME I KNOW HOW MAN ARE WENT THEY START CHEATING ON YOU. DUMB HIM GIRL HE IS NOT WORTH IT.
2006-06-19 10:36:48 · answer #8 · answered by Monserrath J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm well if it never works maybe FATE is telling you not to.
and FATE is very important. and plus who cares what your friends say? if you still want to go out w/ him, you still go out with him!!
2006-06-19 10:32:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no don't break up with him you should get another bf when hes not around stay in the game
2006-06-19 10:38:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋