well are you?
how come u cant jus settle down wit one person and love them instead of jumpin from pu**y to pu**y
2006-06-19 10:15:54 · 33 answers · asked by itsjustme5324 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Just marriage.
2006-06-19 10:17:08 · answer #1 · answered by funnymancurt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, generally men have the desire to propagate the species by making progeny as prolifically as they can. At least that was the way it needed to be back when we more like animals. I think men still have the desire, but the more mature men have that feeling and don't act on it. Some will say they can't help it, given certain circumstances, but, everyone has a choice, even if they have to refuse advances from Angelina Jolie.
Commitment is serious and scary, even to women. So, I'd say yes we are scared of commitment, but that makes the commitment a greater prize. If you are lucky enough to ever receive a man's solid attempt at commitment, it will be strong because of the fear that was overcome to give it in the first place.
Keep hope. A man will want you so much that they will risk committing. In the meantime you may need to address issues that may be putting off the mature males that can commit. Ask yourself, "Am I doing something that rejects mature men and attracts the wrong kind?" Be brutally honest with yourself and if you see a need to change for the better, get after it.
2006-06-19 10:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by Ken C. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as you know women do mature faster than men do. So when we're ready to settle down and have a family, they still want to party hard and go bed-hopping as for some women as well. Although I don't think that its so much of the whole committment part of the deal, I think its more on the lines that they're afraid to mess up the relationship by saying or doing something wrong and that scares them. Some men and women wish to wait for the right person to come along, but even when they do it's still hard for them knowing that they're dedicating their lives to another person not just themselves anymore. They're afraid of losing the right girl, making her change her mind about them so that would be like an excuse for the guy to not make that kind of committment just yet, because the girl just wasnt ready, but we women know differently. Men are afraid to mess up the relationship and losing the girl, but they usually don't admit something like that. I'm not afraid to commit, I'm getting married July 1, 2006 so only a few more weeks. I'm a lil nervous more than anything, but I know that I can do it. I hope i helped you out a lil bit with that question.
2006-06-19 10:33:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I am not scared of commitment that is what I want from a girl is commitment so I can settle down etc, only problem is the girls I date don't see it that way and tend to leave me for other men >.>
2006-06-19 10:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a way of life for some guys.
They're into puddy and that's all they want.
But really I think you're just going after the wrong guys. There are plenty of guys out there that would love to get married to a beutiful girl and settle down to have kids. You're just not looking in the right places.
2006-06-19 10:19:20 · answer #5 · answered by DatingZion 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope I am not scared of commitment that is what I want from a girl is commitment so I can settle down etc, only problem is the girls I date don't see it that way and tend to leave me for other men >.>
2006-06-19 10:19:15 · answer #6 · answered by idiotman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess u had a bad experience... well anyway, it all depends on the guy and how old he is. My husband wasn't insecure at all, he wanted to find a girl, date her and marry her, I was the second girlfriend he ever had. Some men are good believe it or not. I hope you will find a man that will treat u the way you deserve to be treated. Best of luck!
2006-06-19 10:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by Jen S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am committed to a wonderful girl I really mean I can't get enogh of her she is the first person I want to see when I wake and the last when I go to bed she is my life and my love she has become such a part of me when she is gone I feel lost and lonely now i wish she was with me
2006-06-19 10:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if commitment means a tight white jacket with really longs sleeves and lots and lots of Thorazine!! LOL Seriously though I would assume that some are. There are lots of people that fear that, men and women alike. I personally don't fear it. I just wish I could meet a woman that isn't
2006-06-19 10:20:57 · answer #9 · answered by Biker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in a commit ed relationship for 23 years...and I'm looking for another long term relationship, women sure have changed over the years.
2006-06-19 10:17:47 · answer #10 · answered by City slicker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this question goes both ways but there are men that's not afraid of commitment i found a great guy that i have been married to for seven years you just looking in the wrong places
2006-06-19 10:24:26 · answer #11 · answered by BIG MOMMA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋