i actually don't wish the 1st wife is still so innocent and is not aware at all about husband's marriage with another. Sometimes, I would like to turn up and tell her that "you are my big sis and hubby is being fair to both families". But deep down in my heart, I just can't bring myself do so coz she might not able to accept the blow because she is uneducated, not skillful neither not knowledgeable, stubborn and too dependant on hubby.
However, when I discuss this matter to my hubby, he would always replied to me that he will handles tactfully. I would not interfering his acting but I do warned him that if anything happened on him, I would brought my children and pay the last respect in front of the 1st wife and other of his family member.
Pls advise what other methods could resolve in a win win situation?
2006-06-13
03:54:11
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Adorable Mrs
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Marriage & Divorce