2006-06-13 03:55:24 · 19 answers · asked by magicsox 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't think I would like the ex-gf hanging with my man late at night. Tell your bf if he want's to hang with his ex, go on and hit the road. It's almost impossible to just be "friends" with someone who was once your lover.....OR she wants him back. Let him decide what he wants and if he choses her, let him go and find a faithful guy.
2006-06-13 03:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am still close with one of my ex's and we have become more like brother and sister. As Christian's we were never had sex(yes it's true and I am not lying) when we were dating or after for that matter.
Now as friends we hang out ONCE a month and I NEVER hang out with him LATE AT NIGHT....so yes it is possible to be good friends with an ex. Yet the late night thing and how often they hang out....THAT IS FISHY!!!
Here is what you can do:
Don't be confrontational. Catch your man at another time when you are laughing and having fun and ask a brief question about there relationship...this will give you a true answer that acting confrontational and he covers himself defensively!
2006-06-13 06:19:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no reason for a bf to be " good friends" with his ex. Unless they have children together, in which case they are parents together and not " friends" If you are uncomfortable with the status of the ex in the picture. Say so.
I'm sure this guy has other, more meaningful friendships, that he can look to for people to hang out with. Normally the ex, who is now a friend, is a booty call in progress or about to happen..
I don't keep leftover friends. If the relationship didn't work out. "Hey I don't hate ya, but I don't want you hanging around potentially causing me problems with someone new. "
I don't need friends that badly.
2006-06-13 04:01:06 · answer #3 · answered by earthling4luv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he told you after the fact, then yes be upset. This kind of information must be given to you before hand. If he told you prior, then hold off on being upset. More than likely you should've been given a chance to hang out with them. Now if you weren't allowed to be there, then that's a whole nother can of worms to worry about.
2006-06-13 08:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Jon Skywalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The last thing you want to do is overreact and make a big deal out of nothing. I think the foundation of every relationship is trust. If you don't have trust you have no relationship, don't automatically always assume the worst. Ask him about him and let him know that it concerns you. Ask him to look at it from your P.O.V. and how he would react to it. She may be harmless but don't be trusting of her...Follow your gut instinct. Good luck gurly!
2006-06-13 04:00:09 · answer #5 · answered by Mia A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a classic situation for sure, what to do about those pesky xs.in my 40 + years it,s always added up to the same thing, no no no. it doesnt work and creates more friction between you and your boyfriend. no matter what he says, if he still interested in her, you,ll see all the signs, they smile at each other, act glad to see each other, your outta the coversation more than your in it. my advise to you, put it all right on the table girl, either it,s you and me and you totally forget her, or baby i,m outta here, theres so many more fish in the sea, think i,ll go fishing.
2006-06-13 04:04:46 · answer #6 · answered by marinesmomma2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are still "hangin out" on the late night, then he is probably cheating on you. If it was the the other way around, would he allow you to hang out with your ex-boyfriend, I highly doubt it.
2006-06-13 04:18:43 · answer #7 · answered by LL Cool J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should get out of this relationship. i ve learned the hard way that when in a relationship there is a line that friends of another gender shouldnt cross. exes shouldnt even be in the picture. ive learned that the haaaaaaard way.
2006-06-13 04:03:23 · answer #8 · answered by juan m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes his ex coming over isn't a good thing you should tell him how would he like if your ex came over. he wouldn't like that would he? he isn't respecting the relationship. he shouldn't see his ex even if he really cares for her. what they had is over your his girl now.
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2006-06-13 03:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Cupid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know Ur bf n his ex better......well if u r feeling there is something fishy between Ur bf n his ex then may be u should be upset.........its not something that some1 else can tell u
2006-06-13 04:00:41 · answer #10 · answered by y not? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋