ok..... so im 16
i constantly think about this girl
im happy when we talk
it makes me really happy when we hug
id sacrefise everything i have just to be with her
id push my body to the limits to show her how i feel
this love or what ??
if so.... which i think it is
how should i tell her that without scaring her ?
2006-06-13 03:57:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
were not going out -- but im still crazy about her
2006-06-13 03:57:39 · update #1
it was just infatuation..... i dont "love" her anymore....... im hurt
2006-06-18 04:03:44 · update #2
kiss her while your out to dinner then say it:-)
2006-06-13 03:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I felt the same way when I was sixteen and I was given the same advice I am about to give. I am 23 now. It's called puppy love. So for it's worth yeah it's love. Keep your eyes open and don't play the fool. People can never be perfect even if them seem perfect. Were all human. But enjoy it while it last. Don't forget who you are. If you pray, ask god to guide you.
2006-06-13 11:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by mastapes21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to Robert Sternberg's research, "Love" is an emotion consisting of three components: intimacy, passion & committment.
Intimacy, the feeling close and connected to someone (developed through sharing and very good communications over time). Intimacy is what makes you want to share and offer emotional and material support to each other.
-Intimacy alone is Liking (true friendship without passion or long-term commitment)
Passion, the feeling physically aroused and attracted to someone. Passion is what makes you feel "in love" and is the feeling most associated with love. It also rises quickly and strongly influences and biases your judgment.
-Passion alone is Infatuation (passionate, obsessive love at first sight without intimacy or commitment)
Commitment, pledging to your self and each other to strengthen the feelings of love and to actively maintain the relationship. Commitment is what makes you want to be serious, have a serious relationship and promise to be there for the other person if things get tough.
-Commitment alone is Empty Love (decision to love another without intimacy or passion)
Romantic Love: Intimacy & Passion, no Commitment
-Lovers physically and emotionally attracted to each other but without commitment
-“As in a summer romance”
Companionate Love: Intimacy & Commitment, but no Passion
-Long-term committed friendships or a marriage in which the passion has faded
-I love you but I’m not IN love with you
Fatuous Love: Passion & Commitment, but no Intimacy
-Commitment based on passion with without time for intimacy to develop
-Shallow relationship such as a whirlwind courtship
Consummate Love: A complete love consisting of all three components
2006-06-20 10:08:41 · answer #3 · answered by Chuck W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not dating her well is this one of those loves like you want to **** her cause thats what it sounds like do you even talk to her if so she must be a close friend. ask her out on a date take it slow and if you still love her wait about a month or two tell she fills the same or close to the same for you too.
2006-06-13 11:15:13 · answer #4 · answered by love and basketball 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think this is LOVE.i would say u should have some patience because if u take an direct step towards her, then she may get frighten.so firstly get close to her.make her feel comfortable.be enough matured to make her feel like a girl.and when she will get close to u then just ask her gently out.
2006-06-14 05:35:02 · answer #5 · answered by SONIYA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate to you, if you like her tell her you like her. She may accept she may not. you can just know by looking at the faces. I am being fooled by my friend. He always said that he does not like me, but I can relate to his feeling. I can tell that he is loving me but I do not like him. You can choose. I am not the heven. I cannot tell anything about what is going to happen.
2006-06-13 11:15:34 · answer #6 · answered by CELiNE:] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably shouldn't tell her you love her if you want a shot at dating her. It may freak her out a bit...
2006-06-13 11:01:24 · answer #7 · answered by xcypher73x 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude
go in for the kill
don't waitu'll never even realize when its too late
and u don't wanna regret
2006-06-13 11:00:52 · answer #8 · answered by ama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out and get to know her
2006-06-13 11:01:57 · answer #9 · answered by anvilsandinkstudios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya this is ur 1st love congrates !! it feels so sweet....
well, do u know love doesn't need words, the person whom u love naturally comes to know bout ur feelings.
2006-06-13 11:00:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her in front of millions of people. well maybe not millions but alot. and suck it up there aint nothing to be scared of
2006-06-13 11:00:59 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋