its not safe at all! and its bad!! people could get pregnet and sex is a responsibility! i just wanna know if you people agree with me! because my friends trying to do that...so i want to prove to her that its not safe and wait until you are senseble and ready. and wait until you are married or until you know this guy isnt gonna skrew you over. Another thing wait until you're older......not 13 old but maybe 17 old
2006-06-13 03:51:37 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
They just don't care.
2006-06-13 03:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Da Great 1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They think it won't happen to them, meaning they will not get a disease, or get pregnant. That is not smart at all. People must always use condoms before sex. This world is not "safe" anymore.
People lie more often than they tell the truth, so even if your friend asks a guy if he's clean and he says yes, don't believe it!
As for your friend even thinking about sex at age 13 is crazy. Where are her parents? She really needs support. You as her friend, you need to be there for her and tell her to wait until the time is right. Why is she rushing to have sex? It's not going anywhere, trust me. The right person will come along, but she has to grow up first. Her first boyfriend will not be there for her forever. Good luck.
2006-06-13 04:03:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should not have sex until you are ready to bare the responsibility of the results of having sex. Many things can come from sex Pregnancy, and STDs are the big ones. So if you are willing to sit in a doctors room wondering why your clitoris is burning then by all means go for sex. Also most Catholics see it as a sin to use birth control or condoms, i would like to just point premarital sex is a sin to. So if you would like to explain the details of 1700 STDs to your friend maybe that will scare her into using a condom if not from having sex. Abortion should never be used as a form of birth control.
2006-06-13 04:13:34 · answer #3 · answered by wildtb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITELY - glad a young person out there telling others. WAIT GIRLS!!! You don't have to rush this stuff and NO CONDOM --- is very very bad - not only pregnancy but AIDS, STDs - there is so much that can happen without one. Be SMART. No Condom - no sex. If you're under 17 --- just leave it ALL ALONE and enjoy your life - you're worth more than that. Don't let a guy make you feel whole - until you can feel like a "whole" person yourself, you don't need a relationship yet. Find YOU first. Good question.
2006-06-13 03:56:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya that's true. That's absolutely true. You must surely not have sex unless you are fully into your puberty. Moreover having sex without a condom is very very risky and especially at this age.
It might even cause some kinds of infection and everything else. Some people say natural methods like menstural cycle review can avoid pregnancy but that requires quite a lot of knowledge and has a very low success rate. Say 30%
2006-06-13 03:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by Macho Man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity when I was 18 and it was the best thing I ever did. Everyone will respect you for it. More guys wanted me in the end when they knew at 17 I was still a virgin. You gain confidence in yourself as well. I know a girl who had a child when she was 16. She was 16!! And shes having a hard time right now. It's not only the child part but the diseases. REALLY NOT A GOOD IDEA!! Trust me. WAIT. I'm 24 and I'm still with the guy that I lost my virginity to. (well...just broke up but thats not the point!)You need to respect yourself and gte others to respect you back for that. If you say no to a guy you will gain confidence. I swear you will. Put your head up high and stand up for yourself. It hurts the first time so you need to be with someone who you know and he knows you and he will respect that
2006-06-13 03:58:14 · answer #6 · answered by Mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of the guys that screw a girl without protection do not really care about the girl. There is no way that a girl should let a guy have sex with her if she is under 18..
That is not being responsible..Most guys that would do this could not care about the giirl one way ot=r the other.
2006-06-13 03:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they're ignorant and don't pay attention to what's going on in the world around them.
Thirteen is too young to be having sex anyway, with or without a condom.
2006-06-13 03:56:36 · answer #8 · answered by smalltowngirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13? Kids shouldn't be having sex to begin with. Always wear a condom untill you find that right person, which could be a long damn time. This is something someone shouldn't one day regret.
2006-06-13 03:55:20 · answer #9 · answered by musedelirium 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Exactly!! I don't know why people think It's safe to go w/o a condom/birth control or anything to stop from getting ST D's or Pregnant
2006-06-13 03:54:06 · answer #10 · answered by lilblondiy03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right on rightous babe !
bareback is for consenting adults.
that know what they are doing,not for kids experimenting
with sex and positions......
condoms are also a great way to save your life......
aids has increased by 40 % in the U.S.of A alone
in the last two years.....
all because of young adults or kids not using pertection......
don;t go to war without your shield !
just ask any trojan warrior.......
2006-06-13 03:57:18 · answer #11 · answered by rottentothecore 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋