He left his email open at my desk, and when I sat down I see "Hi Honey!" and the email of his high school sweetheart. I investigated. It appears that for July, Aug, and Sept he has been in contact with her. She lives in CA (we're in CT) and they were planning a weekend together, talking intimate, him telling her how miserable I make him. He claims that we were going through a very difficult time. We were. He claims that he knew I was on my way out. I was until he begged me to stay. So he may have considered us seperating, but he never told me that. There were also other girls from dating websites. As far as I know he didn't see any of them, only exchange emails and talk. All this contact with the others stopped end of September, and we've been great since then (until yesterday)But I thought we were great at points in July and Aug to. I can't get the words he wrote out of my head, "when we're in each other's arms" to his ex. I feel so stupid. I feel if I stay I would be condoning it.
2007-12-28
01:54:04
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