A woman at work who I was good friends with has recently just completely switched off and now ignores me... how can someone do that?
Background... she had an abusive husband who she left at the end of 2006, she came back to work and she and I were already friends but she became my close friend, with her relying alot on my strength and support, which was fine and we were, I thought, good close friends - best friends in my view as she shared her life with me and I with her... anyway, she moved over to a new office in November, and I went over to the same office a couple of weeks later, and all of a sudden now she behaves as if she doesn't know me; ignores me, doesn't say hello, doesn't want to have lunch with me anymore.
I have agonized over what I might have done, but there is nothing. It hurts me as she was someone who I cared about and would have walked on coals to make her smile and now, she just ignores me. Am I right to resent her? I've asked what's wrong but she says "nothing".
2007-12-25
21:02:24
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Harry Harrison
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