this is in general and doesnt come under dating or love.
2007-12-25 21:03:44 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
There is plenty of rejection in this world for almost everyone. The reason for this is that there is only about 1 person in 500 with whom you will have a great deal in common. So you are bound to meet up with people who just aren't interested in you. You probably meet people who don't interest you either.
Perhaps you have taken this to heart, which is natural when you don't realize the infinite number of personalities that make up the world. When you realize that people are interested in you at about the same rate as others, then that might help.
I suspect that you aren't the life of the party type. I admire those golden girls and boys who flit from group to group, always lively, always welcomed. I have tried to be like that at parties and it lasts for all of five minutes. I'm an introvert pure and simple and I don't enjoy that.
Practice some conversation starters. It is always good to ask a person a few things about themselves like, hometown, kids, job etc. Once you get a foundation set in the conversation, you can know if you want to continue the conversation. It is a very freeing thing to decide that.
2007-12-25 21:20:23 · answer #1 · answered by MissBehavior 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
as they said yes you probably need to have self-confidence. add self-esteem to that.
I got drew to this question of yours. I always felt like that before and it's really painful. You should tell yourself that it's psychological. You've learned to generalize due to being conditioned by your environment. Well, not all environments in this world are the same. And they can also change through time. You can work to change yourself. It is true that you can chose to avoid the things that hurt you. But never let it close your heart and mind. Observe your surroundings and adapt to it. That way you'll surely learn.
Remember you're here for a purpose. No one can ever define you as worthless.
2007-12-26 05:22:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a low self-esteem, are shy and worry too much.
If you don't have any experience on this (experience here means that most ppl don't like you), start thinking there 's no reason to worry (because there isn't really).
If you noticed others don't like you, it's either because you don't behave well enough or you don't meet ppl who undersatnd you/ match your personality. In case you don't behave well enough, try to be a nicer person. In case others don't match your personality, try to match theirs and if you can't, find more interesting friends but don't stop talking to the ppl you contacted at first.
2007-12-26 05:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by AИИA 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you have a daddy issue. He never was around or if he was then he never really noticed you. You try too hard to get people's attention. Just like asking this question. You know you're the only one who really knows the answer to this. But again, you're trying to get someone's attention. There's plenty of fish in the sea honey. Everyone feels like that sometimes.
2007-12-26 05:08:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because it sounds too me that u have low self esteeem ,if i was to guess i reckon u r the type of person who will do anythig for people to make them happy just to make them like you,but to get back to the question u should get over it,i really mean this just be yourself i no everyone says that but it is true,i used to be like that always wondering if people didnt like me but i just realised that i shud fook them,if they dont like u for who u are well then there not worth giving ur time too anyway
2007-12-26 05:37:57 · answer #5 · answered by igotreallyplastered 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HUM sounds like you have low self esteem issue you need to get a boost of confidence i bet your very lovely and very careing!
2007-12-26 05:08:53 · answer #6 · answered by evilbluerubberducky 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have low self esteem. Perhaps you have had soemone in the past that you really trusted reject your friendship and now you worry that everyone will reject your friendship.
2007-12-26 05:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel the same way, I don't know why but I wish I could change that
2007-12-26 05:08:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This shows your lack of confidence in yourself. You need to boost your moral.
2007-12-26 05:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ashish 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you haven't changed your way of thinking to "I am gonna make people smile and make a worthy impression"...try that :)
2007-12-26 05:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by Lisa S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋