My boyfriend who is of Indian background with parents living in India, will not tell his parents that we are in a relationship. I have met them, but he introduced me as a friend. He says that he wants to finish his studies before telling them, as otherwise they would blame him for not studying well, on the relationship. He has told his friends in India about me, but hasn't really allowed me to interact with them, which he says is because of the fact that he hardly talks to them himself and sees no point in me just talking on the phone with them.
We have been dating for more than 1.5 years and have talked about marriage and kids. He says he can only tell them just before he gets married to me...which is similar to my situation too. The only reason why my parents found out, was because they saw me and him together.
Does anyone have any idea what is going on his mind?
Especially anyone of an Indian background? I'm not an Indian, but from the subcontinent myself.
2007-12-23
22:49:53
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