My boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years. During most of that, we have had a good relationship, but it has not led to marriage, yet. He does not seem to have been interested in marriage, but just because of his idealogy. I am 33, he is 35. 9 months ago, he got a wonderful job offer in Italy, and decided to try it out. He has been doing 3 months there, three months here. He really likes it there, and I can tell he wants to move there permanently. Problem is, I am a lawyer and cannot practice law in Italy without 4 more years of training. we had spoken of having a child together, if I move there, but I don;'t want to move there permanently. He recently got back, and I happened to glance at his email and see that he had several from a girl there. I took an opportunity to read them; they are very friendly--about 1 email/day--and I am pretty sure there is no actual relaitonship there, but there is obviously mutual interest and a solid friendship in the works. Should I be worried?
2007-12-21
00:47:58
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