Thanks to all of you who answered in support, it means alot to me, means that i'm not imagining how bad it is or how much i'm doing for little in return....
What is the best way for me to package the fact I can't handle it anymore, I'm not a fan of full-blown confrontation but I'm up for it this time. Before, I've always asked her to do things to help, like giving the floor a sweep, the table a wipe, putting her dirty hankies in the bin, and have either been accused of nagging or just been refused help.
Should I wait for the straw that breaks the camels back (i.e. cat peeing on the leather couch) and tell her that I cannot live like that and that I'm going to move out? Or should I just get in from work and tell her that I've been having a big think about things and that she has to get her act together or else I'm going to move out? Best way to do it?
Truth be told, I would have left by now if she hadn't come back pregnant at the beginning of the month....
2007-12-20
21:05:05
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18 answers
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Derek J Kered
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Marriage & Divorce