All categories - 2 December 2007

i think i will tonight...*sniff* *sniff* i need some kleenex

2007-12-02 18:54:17 · 24 answers · asked by -unknown- 1 in Polls & Surveys

My girlfriend and I just broke up and I feel horrible, cause I know it really hurt her. We argue nearly every day and she says it part of getting closer. I told her I feel maybe in the future we would be good, but right now it's just not working out. I've been in a few major relationships and she hasn't. So, it's hard to imagine what she is feeling cause I really care about her. I'm having problems in my life that I dont want to affect her anymore. Like both my parents dying recently, my best friend dying only a few months ago. To where we moved in with eachother prematurely...only a month into the relationship. I don't want to feel like I did the wrong thing cause I see her hurting now but I can't help but want to do the right thing.

2007-12-02 18:54:12 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 18:53:42 · 17 answers · asked by Heartbreak kid 3 in Polls & Surveys

Disregard the question if you dont know her.

2007-12-02 18:53:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

im going for 50 days, last year he kept on calling me everyday asking me to come back because he cant stand staying alone without me.i dont want to leave him but i have 2 ,i havent seen my family in a year. it hurts but i dont know what to do. how can i make him enjoy his vacation :( ?

2007-12-02 18:53:35 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So like we moved into a new home, and I'm really into planting things like trees and fruit and stuff, but the dirt in our backyard is very poor. It's weird like clay or something, when it gets wet is all gummy and the water doesn't get very far down. When its dry which it usually is, its hard like a rock and I'm sure it's not good dirt for plants :/ What kinda of dirt is this though ? And what can I do to make it like not suck so much ?

2007-12-02 18:52:16 · 4 answers · asked by kernal 3 in Garden & Landscape

2007-12-02 18:52:06 · 8 answers · asked by t-3 2 in History

2007-12-02 18:51:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

Discounting "temporary" effects of ice caps forming and melting through the ice ages and warmer periods, why aren't oceans getting saltier? Is there a meganism that takes salt from the ocean and return it to land? Or are the oceans getting saltier in the long term?

2007-12-02 18:51:22 · 2 answers · asked by kwaaikat 5 in Earth Sciences & Geology

explain why two lines that are perpendicular to the same line are or are not always parrallel to each other.


thankyouu

2007-12-02 18:51:16 · 4 answers · asked by LizAsAweS)mE 2 in Homework Help

Ok so I haven't seen this girl that I really like in over a year. She lived in a different city and she had a boyfriend at the time, but now she moved close to me and I don't think she's with her boyfriend anymore. The reason I say, "I don't think," is because I'm pretty sure they are not together, but we haven't discussed it yet. On Friday we met up at a basketball game and that was the first time I saw her in over a year and we had a good time. On Saturday we met up again with some friends and had another good time. So, both of these times were fun but we were out with friends. I really want to hang out with her one and one so I can talk to her more and see if she opens up, but I just don't know how to go about making this happen? I don't want to rush things too much or seem too pushy, seeing as how it's been so long since we've seen each other. So my question is that I want to hang out with her one on one, but how and when should I ask her about this? THANKS!

2007-12-02 18:50:59 · 7 answers · asked by DN1503 4 in Singles & Dating

I used to have a gf but then i moved and we kindda drifted apart but now there is this girl at my new school but one of my friends just told me she was already going out wit someone else, but i really like her but when ever i go near i either get reminded about my old gf or i get reminded that she has a bf what should i do?

2007-12-02 18:50:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-12-02 18:50:20 · 5 answers · asked by Monica S 1 in Ford

it's been 3 wks. we've adopted a 4 month old male kitten, "Balieze". Our older cat, Gabriella still hisses at him a LOT actually, however in certain ways she's been adjusting I've noticed.
ppl generally have said that the average amount of time would be 3 months and the two could actually even become fond of one another.
he is TRYING to get her attention, play w/her,but miss Gabriella just wants to show him who's boss I guess.

Have you ever encountered this problem w/new pets, cats particuliarly, and did they eventually learn to accept one another in time? IS there still a chance I'd come home one day from work and actually see them snuggling?
[right now cannot picture is, lol]
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2007-12-02 18:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by fancypantsy 3 in Cats

2007-12-02 18:50:06 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

My mother is both clever and insane, and me and my brother need to get away from her before she kills one or both of us. I am 17 and my brother is 15. She currently works in a highly unethical profession for a person in her situation (a chaplan at a hospital). She has not only threatened to kill me and my brother, but has abused both of us physically. She abuses us emothionally every single day, and i have suicidal thoughts whenever i am around her. The problem is that we really cant prove the abuse that she has dished out. We are very desperate to know what to do. My real father has divorced her and lives in atlanta, GA; and he wants us to live with him, but my mother wont let us go. Oh, and my mother lives in Augusta, Maine, so i dont know what the laws are there. Please help me, and tell me what to do!

2007-12-02 18:49:33 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren G 4 in Law & Ethics

My daughters homework has a clue of garden plant with these letters S A T R E,only one more letter can be added.Any ideas?

2007-12-02 18:49:27 · 7 answers · asked by snikleback 5 in Garden & Landscape

I'm 28 and I've never had to wear glasses. Well recently I've noticed that when it's late at night and I'm a little drowsy my vision gets a little blurry and I have to squint and blink to see better. Actually I'm beginning to notice that I have the same problem on and off throughout the day. It's not to the point where I can't tell what's in front of me even from a distance but it is blurrier than usual. Both of my mom and dad where glasses but neither of my siblings do.

2007-12-02 18:48:41 · 9 answers · asked by xavier_maximus 2 in Other - Health

Please recommend me your best novels or non-fictions.

I generally enjoy all kinds except romance.

I also read non-fictions about topics relating to

architecture, business, etc

Simply tell me your best book to read :)

Thanko

2007-12-02 18:48:32 · 13 answers · asked by Orange Man 2 in Books & Authors

2007-12-02 18:48:21 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Small Business

2007-12-02 18:48:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Motorcycles

the vase holds about 1 gallon of water..
i'm thinking water changes would be stressful on the betta because since it's such a small amount of water, concentrations of anything (ammonia, nitrite, nitrate, pH, etc) would change significantly at the slightest change of water. so how should i cycle the vase? do i make any adjustments to the norm of cycling a tank? like should i increase/decrease the %age of weekly water changes or increase how often i do water changes or both??

my friends got me a betta in a vase for my birthday and i'm away at college, but i have a fish tank at home. i've had some fish care experience and i'm worried about the whole fish in vase/bowl controversy. but what if you place gravel in the vase from an already established fish tank???

please state the reliability of your answer ie. you're a veterinarian, you study fish, you've cared for whatever fish for however many years, etc.

2007-12-02 18:47:57 · 6 answers · asked by Alyssa 3 in Fish

My main man is Peter Griffen, lol.

2007-12-02 18:47:46 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Comics & Animation

Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for over 2 and a half years.
During most of our relationship we have gone to eachother's family events. When ever he asks me to go, I always go no questions or complaining.

But everytime I want him to go to my family events like my sister and brother in laws for thanksgiving or a birthday dinner, he either comes up with an excuse why he cant go, or while we are there he complains about being there and wants to leave early.

If anyone has had the similar situation or has any advice on why he does this or how to approach him. I have asked him about it before and he always avoids the subject or gives me a bogus excuse.

THANKS!!

2007-12-02 18:47:36 · 21 answers · asked by Melinda 2 in Singles & Dating

One of us has a minor pet allergy so we keep our bedroom door closed to minimize pet allergens in our sleeping area. However, starting about a month ago and each and every night since, our neutered 4 y .o. cat starts scratching our door starting any time between 12-4am, continuing NONSTOP until morning. As a kitten he was disciplined with a water spray bottle but no amount of spraying, or presenting him with that intent, has curbed this new behavior. I lined the door with fabric but he clawed through it until the wood was reexposed. The layout of our small condo provides only 2 rooms where he could be isolated overnight. One would keep our child awake, the other is nearby enough so his scratching to get out would be heard by all. Until recently this was never a problem so we don't know what started it. We give him lots of love every night before bed. Please, we need other ideas! And please, no uproars about the spray bottle. This is documented, safe discipline for cats.

2007-12-02 18:47:25 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Cats

OK i need a laptop because my desktop is a P.O.S. but i kinda dont want to buy anything new because I havent heard anything good or even decent about Windows Vista and if im gonna pay a shitload of money i dont want the thing to run really s l o w or like **** and close up programs on me (thats whats wrong with my current computer) and Vista is on every laptop out there right? but i eventually plan on getting one so what brand should i go with? heres some things to consider
-I want the Most Memory Possibly prefferbly 2 or more gigs
-Something that costs less or around $700
-Not really gonna install any games maybe one
-general use for this computer is gonna be school work and youtube for when im bored

2007-12-02 18:46:49 · 7 answers · asked by The kid 2 in Laptops & Notebooks

I'm writing a paper and it's based on an autobiography. Do I describe events in the book in the past tense or in the present tense? In the book events are described in the past tense...so should I follow that?

2007-12-02 18:46:49 · 6 answers · asked by blaque_cherry6 2 in Homework Help

2007-12-02 18:46:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Hunting

my friend got me a betta fish in vase that holds..i wanna say approx. 1 gallon of water. but i'm worried about it because there's all this controversy about betta fish in vases. does anyone know the main points for the objections?

is it just because it's much too small than their natural habitat so it's considered inhumane?
-we're never going to be able to create a home anywhere near the size of his natural habitat, so of course bigger will always be better so i'm thinking the size should be okay for now because he's got quite a bit of swimming space..

or does it have something to do with the ability of keeping the water in good conditions for the fish?
-because i'm thinking cycling would be stressful on the betta because water changes in such a small amount of water would drastically change concentrations of anything (ammonia, nitrite, nitrate, pH, etc) but what if you placed gravel into the vase from an already established tank and you go ahead and do regular weekly water chang

2007-12-02 18:46:34 · 4 answers · asked by Alyssa 3 in Fish