My boyfriend won't be going in to basic training until next year, but of course im getting pretty worried a head of time. along with my fear that he's going to come out a different person (with all respect, Im really not attracted to the stereotypical military attitude, atleast in a husband).
Also, we dont really believe in the whole idea of legal marraige, which also causes a problem with just about...everything. I'm afraid that, because i wouldnt be recognized as a dependent by his job, i'll end up just being this crazy lady with no health insurance that follows him around the country.
will he be placed in bachelor housing? will i never be able to live with him because i wont be in the housing allowance? thats pain that i don't know if i could deal with...we are inseparable at this point and i dont know what id do if that was the case...just living on my own, him visiting me, and living on base by himself.
do you think this is what i'll be doomed to?
2007-11-23
08:49:15
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Delaney Insaney
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