We've been married two years, and they have been divorced 18 years. He has had another failed marriage in between these two. His first ex and he call each other on their anniversary. He's continued to do this even though he knows it annoys me. One time I picked up the phone and she said, " I was thinking of you this morning when I was..." He said, "Good girl." When she calls and leaves messages, she says things like, "Hello, this if the first Mrs. (last name)," or "Hello, this is the mother of your children." Their children are grown and have left home. Once she called to borrow $1500 to cover a gambling debt and the two of them kept it from me. When I found out he said, "what I do with my money is my buisness and if you don't like it, I'll get a lawyer." It wasn't about the money; it was about the secrecy. We've also had problems with him calling ex-girlfriends. He says there is something wrong with me and I'm just too jealous. I don't want to divorce, but what else can I do?
2007-11-09
16:12:21
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