We've been married two years, and they have been divorced 18 years. He has had another failed marriage in between these two. His first ex and he call each other on their anniversary. He's continued to do this even though he knows it annoys me. One time I picked up the phone and she said, " I was thinking of you this morning when I was..." He said, "Good girl." When she calls and leaves messages, she says things like, "Hello, this if the first Mrs. (last name)," or "Hello, this is the mother of your children." Their children are grown and have left home. Once she called to borrow $1500 to cover a gambling debt and the two of them kept it from me. When I found out he said, "what I do with my money is my buisness and if you don't like it, I'll get a lawyer." It wasn't about the money; it was about the secrecy. We've also had problems with him calling ex-girlfriends. He says there is something wrong with me and I'm just too jealous. I don't want to divorce, but what else can I do?
2007-11-09 16:12:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would tell him to call that lawyer. He is doing things behind your back. What else is there that you just have not found out about yet? It is not his money. He is a married man and that makes it both of yours. Thinking of him when she was what? Are they making sexual innuendo? I would not tolerate this at all. I would not take this secrecy from my husband at all. He should not do it if it annoys you. It is not like the kids are little and they need to speak to each other. They should be out of each others lives for the most part. Good luck girl.
2007-11-09 16:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have been married as quickly as and have been a kin. in the event that they nonetheless have emotions for another so be it. there is not something you're able to do approximately it to quit it besides. If not, you have not something to fret approximately. interestingly you're slightly on the insecure part and understand something that we don't. i'm surprised at each and all the recent spouses who're so hectic that their new husband or spouse would cheat with the ex. there's a clarification why i did not marry a guy with an ex spouse and bags yet as a replace chosen a unmarried guy with none of this.
2016-12-16 04:05:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Divorce. Sorry but this guy is a pig. He shouldn't be doing that. If he wanted his ex, he should have stayed married to her. Divorce him and find a better husband.
2007-11-09 16:16:41 · answer #3 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Don't get mad, get your money first" before he spend all his money on his ex. You have all the right to handle his and your money, he does not respect you. Get yourself a good lawyer, may be he will glad to spend money on you after divorce.
2007-11-09 17:16:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
wow. there is no way i would put up with that sh*t. sounds like he still wants her. if you stay you are an idiot. looks like wife #2 wasnt an idiot
2007-11-09 16:24:42 · answer #5 · answered by ★SuGar and SpiCe★ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋