We've been married for 5 years, living together 8 and knowing eachother 10 years. He cheated on me last year and since then, I just feel love has diminished and am not in love with him anymore. After much consideration, I decided it would be best for us to separate instead of living a life of hell and give him the opportunity to find a woman who will really love him and understand him for what he is.
Although I am sure about my feelings, is it normal to miss him, even though I know I don't love him?
He hasn't left yet, but I keep thinking about when I'll be on my own and keep wondering if it is normal to feel that way. I don't hate him, to the contrary, I do care about him but that does not mean I love him.
Oh God, it would be so much easier if I could just love him and get on with our lives. Its painful to see how it hurts him, but I do believe I am doing the best for both of us.
2007-11-01
02:23:34
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Sesoid
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Marriage & Divorce