my hubby (23) and i (21) were having this discussion. when i met my hubby, i knew he smoked & drank alot, from what his family says, he really calmed down after he met me & more so when we got married. he promised me he was going to stop smoking, i find it a total turn off. the drinking, well i don't like it either, but i know he doesn't drink alot like he use to, so what can i do, you know? i wasn't raised around smoking & drinking. i never saw the point in it & it's something that isn't part of my life. on the other hand, he was. i seen his parents get drunk & argue horribly to the point where they're punching & hitting each other. i'm 22 wks pregnant with our first baby. i don't want my baby to raised like that. i told my hubby if he refuses to stick to his promise, that's him. yeah i make a big deal, because he promised. if not then i wouldn't. & if he's going to be drinking or smoking, he is not going to do it around my baby or in our house. any advice? :( thx :)
2007-11-01
06:05:47
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