ok so i like this guy but my best friend is crawling all over him but she has a boyfriend and is still crawling all over the guy that i like so should i just back off and let her have him and her current boyfriend or should i go for it with him??????? oh and she said that he's "not my type" she said he is more of her type but he is my type what should i do?????
2007-11-01 06:06:42 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Chelsea♥Cheyenne♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he kinda flirts with me more then her alot more then her
2007-11-01 06:19:36 · update #1
Well your friend can't have her cake and eat it too. I think she is trying her best to throw you off with the "not my type" statement. If I were you I would tell her that you really like him. And if she already knows, you go for it. If he likes you and you like him, then why not. She doesn't really seem like a good friend, if she is being stingy with a man that's not nowhere near being hers. But, if you think your friendship will be affected then don't go for him. However, I really do hope that you don't miss out on a great thing, because if she is your BF, she will step aside with no questions asked.
2007-11-01 06:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by L.Y.T. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is probably just saying he's not ur type cause she likes him. I would tell your friend that you like him and for her to stop flirting with him cause she already has a boyfriend, unless she is ready to break up with her boyfriend to try to date this guy. Really though it doesnt matter who likes him, it all depends on who he likes, does he flirt back with her, or does he flirt with you?
2007-11-01 13:13:23 · answer #2 · answered by pierce_butterfly18 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont date. you can see who people really are and who they really want just by being friends with them.
if the person truly loves you, they will be patient for you, not run off with another person,.,
if the person is simply horny then that explains them running off to someone else. but that shows you how they will behave if they do get married to someone,,., oh my wife is unavailable , im gonna go fool around with someone else...
its that simple.
if the person loves you, they won't give up on you and they wont just run off with someone.
the same with you.
you need to learn to build more friendships rather than dating.
you need to focus on becoming the right person rather than trying to find the right person
this gives you time and the other person more time to learn how to be the right person when marriage comes.
unless marriage is not your goal, if that is the case then you don't have any business dating.
you can get everything you need in friendships.
other than gratifying your loneliness boredom and your inability to admit that you are not happy with yourself and so you want to bring someone else into your misery..
if thats the case, you would be one of those people that will end up in horrible divorce, destroying the lives of your children and maybe even bringing them to addictions and thus one more delinquent in the world.
if you want the best for your life, make the best choices.,. asking is a good way but remember to BE HONEST WITH YOURSELF. if you know your decision is wrong, then stop.
find an accountability friend.
The problem is that people dont really know how to love.
LOVE is not just some giggly feeling you get and butterflies.
Love is when a mother doesnt want to clean up the crap on her babys butt but still does it. THATS LOVE.
wanting to kiss a hot person is something even the biggest idiot can do.
but are you the kind of person who will kick out your spouse when you get angry?
or are you smart enough to learn how to discern people before you bring yourselves into marriage knowing that you can resolve any problem.
because people don't know love.
Love is patient and kind;
love does not envy or boast;
it is not arrogant or rude.
It does not insist on its own way;
it is not irritable or resentful;
it does not rejoice at wrongdoing,
but rejoices with the truth.
Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.
1 corinthians 13
Most peoples version of love is completely opposite of what is on that list.
Just write it down for yourself and see how it sounds.
Love is impatient, unkind
--I want a kiss- i dont want to get married lets have sex now
you dont love me if you make me wait
its envious and boastful
--why cant you buy me stuff like that guy, why cant you be like a supermodel, why cant you be more like this or that,
-- look how hot I am, look how cool my car is, it cost me 75 grand, I am smarter than everyone, I can afford expensive gifts and dates blah blah blah.
arrogant and rude---
insists on its own way
irritable and resentful
rejoices in wrongdoing--- i gave him a piece of my mind.- he deserved what was coming. - thats what you get for doing this ==that
does this shoe look good?- no- why you piece of @4%@34^#34
does not bear anything
i cant stand this anymore, im dumping you
does not trust anyone
expects everyone to make a mistake
does not endure anything.
-you said one little thing that I don't like, ITS OVER!
You can't practice long term commitment in a series of short term relationships. If you want to practice what married life is going to be.
WORK WORK WORK, and when you can't work anymore, try to make someone elses day and make them happy.
Thats what you will be doing when you are married.
Work Work Work.
Then get home and love your spouse and children.
if you can't even do that to your parents, you have no business getting married at all.
don't even waste peoples time by trying to get a date if you cant even build good honest friendships.
2007-11-01 13:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by bagsy84 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she has a bf already. try to go out with the guy you like, your friend can't control who you like or not, she can't say who's your type or not. your friends bf will see what she is doing and will probbaly break it with her, but go and ask that boy out. you never know what could happen
2007-11-01 13:11:07 · answer #4 · answered by Sweety 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She does not sound like a friend to me and if he is willing to have her when she is already taken, then he is no good either. Find different friends.
2007-11-01 13:14:49 · answer #5 · answered by Rainfall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
smack her upside her hoeish head! Wow I hate girls like that, I'd stop talking to her if I were you and yes go for him! She has a boyfriend and she needs to be faithful.
2007-11-01 13:13:16 · answer #6 · answered by Viola H 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump the friend, she's not a real friend....go after him yourself!
2007-11-01 13:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by num1accent01 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go and get him dear its a golden chance pls
2007-11-01 13:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by karan arora 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to back off!!!
2007-11-01 13:10:50 · answer #9 · answered by kind1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell your friend to stay back
2007-11-01 13:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by mr fugi 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋