Ok, I got all you're awesome answers. I'm not a selfish person at all....quite the opposite, but his issue really sets me off. He can talk with the inlaws, I don't care, but when I hear....."I have to make a decision if I'm going to the in-laws Xmas party...and I'm between a rock & a hardplace, because someone will be upset no matter what I decide" that goes above & beyone the tolerance level. The party is Dec 23....we bowl and that's one of our bowling nites......bowling is not a big deal and I could care less about bowling. My issue is...you tell me you want to spend the rest of your life with me....and you love me, so why would you EVER decide to hurt me or make me mad over your former inlaws?....I've been more than patient with this situation. We went to dinner with them, at a family graduation with them...(where the former mother in law talked ill about my bf's mother..not cool), so I've been more than willing to be accepting...
So thank you all for the responses.
2007-10-21
02:19:11
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