All I have ever wanted was to be a mother to 4 children. My husband knew this and one day promised me that this would happen. However my husband insists that I have a constant full time job. We already have 2 girls whom I love, but were not planned, and I would love to try for another. When I lost my job that I had to get because my husband got layed off from his, I put my foot down and told him that it was his job to be the provider. Since then he has completely changed his mind about having more kids and told me under no circumstance could we have any more. This hurts me very deeply and he knows. I can't even look at another baby without wanting to cry. He is so serious about this that the issue of divorce has actually come up. I am having a hard time getting past this. I know I love him and he loves me. I am not sure I could live without out him, but I resent him now and I am afraid this will hurt our marriage in the long run as well. Is this something I should just get past?
2007-10-18
02:38:45
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buterbuny2
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Marriage & Divorce