My wife and I will have been married 3 years in April. We are young, both 22, and have a son who will be 2 in January. (for all of you who are figuring it up we were married but just like to say the honeymoon worked LOL) Anyways, I work (3rd shift) and she stays at home with him. Money is tight but we pay our bills and splurge every so often. What I am getting at is we cant get past bickering. Either we are fantastic and could be role models for other young couples or we are fighting (bad). But heres my problem its over absolutely nothing!!! i.e. i didnt do the dishes in the right order(remember baby items, cups, silverware, plates and bowls and then pots and pans) or i get mad at her for waking me up to say shes leaving instead of her just leaving and letting me sleep. Our fights arent fights they are miniscule problems (bickering) compared to others real problems but we turn them into a 3-4 HOUR ordeal. How do we stop them at what they are (just differences) and not into a war?
2007-10-18
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