Sometimes when we're having sex, she starts to panic. She'll start shaking and crying hysterically. She feels like she's upsetting me when that happens, but I completely understand. How should I comfort her when this happens and how should I make her see that I understand and love her even though she panics?
I realize I posted this question previously, but many people told me that she needed to go to therapy, and she has. She's still going and I've gone with her. I just need to know what I should do and how I can help.
Another thing...We obviously stop having sex when she panics and I try to hold her, but sometimes that makes her cry even harder and she just doesn't want to be touched. Sometimes she'll pull away from me and I'll catch her hand and bring her close to me, and she just snuggles up and cries. After she's close she's fine, but other times, she gets away and after things have calmed down, she'll tell me she just wishses that I would have held her. What should I do?
2007-10-11
05:26:45
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