because this is sort of the deal with me and my boyfriend. we've been together for 8 months. in mid july/beginning august i started to get distant towards him (avoiding romantic moments, ...) because i got afraid of how close we had grown before that. since then i've been struggling with this. near the end of august he was really sad/hurt about it, we talked about it and i told him it would stop.
now it has already gotten better, but i don't initiate kisses, hugs and sex anymore. do not get me wrong, i do respond when he kisses me and stuff, i'm just not the one making the moves anymore - while i did do this a lot more before.
so i guess i've become less affectionate... and he's texting me less lately... i want to change both of these things: better contact during week (cause i already only see him once a week due to me being at a dorm) and initiating more myself again.
but is the lack of contact due to me being less affectionate you think? would this be normal guy-reaction?
2007-10-03
21:40:13
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