Long story.... but basically, my husband and I are both Christians and have pretty high standards about lust, he's had a history with porn, and ended up doing it again during our marriage, several times, and lying to my face about it. It wasn't the porn that was the biggest issue with me, but the lying.
Anyway, fast forward a few months, we've talked about this a lot, and I wanted to know what qualities he thought were more beautiful than me.... He said, smaller boobs (weird, huh?), bigger butt, darker eyes, and bigger lips....
Now, I am confident in my looks, I know that I'm attractive... but I am not confident in the way my husband views me. He says that he considers other women more beautiful, yeah, okay, I get that. Of course other women ar e more beautiful than me... but the fact that he has certain qualities that he considers more "beautiful" is upsetting.
It makes me so insecure, that I feel like I lost that spark we had in the beginning of our relationship. HELP!
2007-09-28
08:02:04
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