When my bro in law moved in, my husband became an instant jerk. He went from Dr. Jekyll to Mr. Hyde. I knew in the back of my mind he would be different with his brother around, but hoped he wouldn't change. My husband used to thank me for dinner, and tell me how much he appreciated it. He spent time with me. Now, I go to my favorite places alone. The way he talks to me is awful. When the 3 of us go some where, I feel like a 3rd wheel. I peacefully brought it up one day and was told it was my fault he was acting this way simply because I refused to be his bro's wife and mother. He has a wife back home. My husband started being a jerk the instant his brother showed up. Before I ever asked anyone to help with dishes or grabbing the garbage if it's full instead of piling stuff around the trash can or watching stuff fall on the floor and yell, "Uh Oh!" and walking off and leaving it. My husband tells me to go "f" myself. Is this just a macho thing or what?
2007-09-19
07:17:29
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