2007-09-19 07:15:47 · 37 answers · asked by Sabina_Rois 5 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
orientation and sexual preferences have little to do with Love.
Love knows no boundaries.
2007-09-19 07:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by redmane_at_stargazer 3 · 9⤊ 5⤋
Yes, a gay guy can fall in love with a woman ... the problem is that their 'sexuality' will come out eventually. A gay guy can make love with a woman ... and can even get 'satisfied' ... the 'gayness' is more about the 'deep friendship' and 'sharing' than it is about the 'sex acts' ... and 'true love' usually only happens with another male.
2007-09-19 07:22:10 · answer #2 · answered by Kris L 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I was never very beautiful and I've had gay men fall in love with me. One or two even tried, really tried, to have sex with me. They just can't. See, if a man doesn't want to, he can't -- not without Viagra anyway, and that wasn't on the market in those days.
We decided that what our relationship was more resembled a close brother and sister (sometimes joking that it was really two sisters), and we just weren't into incest. That's a metaphor, of course, but I understood. They were trying to say it was no reflection on me that sex with me just wasn't in the cards.
Still, I miss my old brothers (and sisters). I grew away from them when I met My Steve, who was somewhat homophobic mainly because he was what is called "gay bait," and he didn't like being hit upon. Now that he's dead, I wish I could get back into the gay community as the "f@g hag" I once was.
Gays in St. Louis?
2007-09-19 07:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by auntb93 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is. I'm gay. Have been my entire life. I've always been physically attracted to men. But Ive had this best friend since the start of high school. We were inseparable while she still lived in this town. I believe I'm in love with her. Have been since day one. But I am not sexually attracted to her. We always joke about getting married one day. And the pool boy would be my sexual release. We always day were soul mates stuck in the wrong body/sexual orientation. Is it healthy? No. Will I ever stop loving her an being her friend? I could never walk away.
2016-03-17 01:57:54 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he can. People often misdefine being in love with someone and being in lust with them.
You need a healthy balance if you choose to marry or live with that person. But a gay man can be in love with a woman and not find her sexually attractive.
Take for instance Will and Grace, i know its a TV show, but tell me Will doesn't love Grace. Or that Jack doesn't love Karen in some way.
Love is the sole emotion that can take you prisoner and against your will.
2007-09-19 07:21:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 4⤋
YES!!!
Love has nothing to do with sex!!!
I have been the woman twice!!!
I won't wish it on anyone.
I have NO regrets having the two guys in my life.
P.S.
I didn't know either was gay until after the fact!!!
NO ONE KNOWS
WHO THEY WILL
FALL IN LOVE WITH!!!
HOW BLESSED I AM!!!
2007-09-19 07:21:59 · answer #6 · answered by Devon 6 · 1⤊ 7⤋
I'm a lesbian and I have a gay guy as a roommate. We are 'in love' with eachother, but we're not sexual with eachother. We always crack jokes like 'I wish you were a guy/girl...' Heck, we even have a house together and have considered marriage for the tax break. lol So, as far as I'm concerned, yes its possible, but it won't be a sexual thing.
2007-09-19 07:51:16 · answer #7 · answered by Krys 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋
I've been in love with my gay "boyfriend" for 10 long years now, and to say it's a complicated relationship would be a vast understatement. NO ONE understands us! I believe in my heart that HE is "in love" with me, too, but just won't ALLOW himself to give in to it because of that gay "mind-set" that he brainwashed himself into, long before he met me. Because of his PSYCHOLOGICAL BLOCK that prevents him from being intimate with me, he is convinced that the object of his "affection" MUST have a penis! But I KNOW he REALLY loves me, and I don't think he'll EVER find that kind of TRUE love with another man. I can only hope and pray that SOMEDAY he will come to that realization, regret all the years he's wasted on his CHOICE, and love me COMPLETELY. And if not, all I can do is hope and pray that I will meet a nice STRAIGHT guy I can love, who will love me back WITHOUT all these complex "issues" getting in the way! But after 10 years, I've about given up on THAT option.....
2007-09-19 08:17:26 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 7⤋
Since most people are *technically* bisexual, but identify as either straight or gay, I would say yes.
(A person might be 99% gay, and 1% straight, for example. It doesn't have to make sense.)
2007-09-19 07:43:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
I wonder why is it possible. If straight won't fall in love with straight, why a gay would fall in love with a straight woman? they must cheat themselves or cheat the other half....
2014-03-26 20:30:21 · answer #10 · answered by jiejie1998 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so.
But they don't play for the same team as us. It's hard for you to compete against a team that has access to the equipment 24/7....whereas you have access to it, perhaps an hour a day tops.
2007-09-19 07:20:16 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋