All categories - 18 September 2007

My husband and I are going to file a chapter 7. I guess we are border line on our income. We have the option to surrender our house and let it go into foreclosure or we can reaffirm it and stay in it.

Here is some backround - our current home is mortgaged for approx. $255,000. The current value of our home is $217,000. We got the second mortgage to pay off some other debt a while ago, (mostly credit cards). We pay $2000 per month for our First (including taxes & insurance and escrow shortage payback) and our second. We have a 3500 total sq foot home with 4 bedrooms, full basement, 2.5 bath, large kitchen and 'bonus' room that we use as a play room. Our back yard is almost unusable because of the slope. We live on a cul-de-sac.

The house that we would be moving to would be $1000 per month cheaper. It is 3 bedroom, 2 bath. It has a large privacy fenced in yard with an above ground pool and 2 tier deck. It need some work here and there, mostly cosmetic.

2007-09-18 06:06:14 · 10 answers · asked by sahmcclure 2 in Family

...............because YOU ARE, you know, your amazing! : )

2007-09-18 06:05:59 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

The money is taken out of my pay check, then I have to use the remainder of my pay check to pay for my own college loans. Is that fair? Can anyone be morally okay with taking this money from me and using it for themselves? At the very, very LEAST, they could pay it back after they graduate and get a job.

2007-09-18 06:05:47 · 9 answers · asked by damo 2 in Financial Aid

2007-09-18 06:05:32 · 11 answers · asked by xander 1 in Newborn & Baby

2007-09-18 06:05:26 · 5 answers · asked by perrigrin2001 2 in Drama

I tend to worry about my husband a whole lot. Even though I trust him, I wonder what kind of influence other people can be on him. Afterall, I know that he is easily influenced. I worry that he can't stick to his guns when he should. Not only is he a husband, but a father. He is away on work and they stopped over in VA Beach for a couple of days. I couldn't get hold of him until after midnight last night. The other two men with him, one is newly married and one is single. I feel like they may have hit up a strip bar or something last night, which is totally off limits in our marriage. He knows this, but when two others want to go, what do you do? He would go along and blame them. So anyways, I asked what he did last night, and jokingly threw in "a strip bar?" and he changed the subject after saying no. It's not like he would tell me yes, they did. Now I am left to wonder if he did. So he is going to be away for 4 months now and I just feel uneasy about it.

2007-09-18 06:05:18 · 10 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im very curious and i would like to know if any of you know what a rhythm test is..or what you have to do??..or so..because i want to know what you have to do to pass for the s.m. global audition..besides, is anyone going???..for those who have no idea..please dont answer this question.....

2007-09-18 06:05:08 · 0 answers · asked by lisa* 1 in Theater & Acting

Peanut M&M's

or

Christmas time FUDGE!!!

2007-09-18 06:05:07 · 17 answers · asked by THEMrsMinLa&Momof2 6 in Other - Food & Drink

I have bad credit and my landlord/boss wants me to buy the house I'm renting its a duplex with a renter on the opposite side of me? I'm clueless when it comes to stuff like this but would love to learn and be a landlord of my own, would i need money down? could I get the loan for more than what he is asking for the house?

2007-09-18 06:05:02 · 9 answers · asked by D 1 in Renting & Real Estate

Any ideas or suggestions...We are taking the kids next month to a wiggles concert. Kids are 4 and 2. We went last year also. And realized you can bring props and stuff for the Wiggles, There is a time when they come through the isles and get everything. Roses for Dorthey the dinosar, and Bones for Wags the dog. We saw someone make a large bone from cardboard last year - We are thinking about that...Any ideas of any signs maybe....Thanxs!

2007-09-18 06:04:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Toddler & Preschooler

well, I'm sure the formula for finding the gravitational force is correct, if the radius is 0 the weight would ofcourse be undefined, then why is it 0 in all sources which I've read???

2007-09-18 06:04:46 · 2 answers · asked by Ice S 2 in Physics

2007-09-18 06:04:39 · 2 answers · asked by yankeesfan4ever112514 2 in Fantasy Sports

rubbish your character and humiliate your character to others, socially ostracize you to others, portraying you as an ''aggressive lunatic'' to other people and are also defaming you and portraying you as a person your not?

im a 30 year old bpd sufferer and ive had an anger problem since 16, because of abuse and trauma.
iam waiting for therapy and iam actively trying to work on this problem, as its one of the biggest problems i have..

but what can i do when im being portrayed as'' that '' character to others?

iam extremely upset about this

2007-09-18 06:04:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Psychology

'did you feed the baby?'
'no,he can____'

2007-09-18 06:04:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Languages

Mike and I had a party to introduce our bridal party to each other, our best friends, Mike’s sister, brother-in-law, niece and nephew. Our parents were also there.

Abby our 4 year-old flower girl was an absolute hellion. Neither parents nor grandparents did a thing to make her behave. She threw several tantrums. She wanted a cupcake for dessert and when her mother said not yet, Abby hit her several times and her mother did nothing! Mike’s dad said that’s not nice, and she hit him! Her behavior is worse each time we see them. Everyone insists that she’ll be an angel for the wedding, that at five she’ll behave much better. But she’s always like this and no one does anything to discipline her.

Because of her horrid behavior, I want Abby out of the wedding. Mike doesn’t want sis dropping out of the wedding and is afraid his family’s feelings will be hurt. I said that mine will be hurt a lot more if she ruins our wedding day.

Am I wrong here? I need some good advice!

2007-09-18 06:04:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I definitely don't like all of the Democratic Candidate's proposals for fixing the problem, but Healthcare definitely is an issue, with people dying because they switch companies after having a pre-existing/uninsurable condition, or after loosing jobs our corporations take to Mexico and India, why do no Republican candidates have any Healthcare Plan on the platforms? Do they think we're too dumb to notice? I might not expect much from someone like Mitt Romney who took his profits to other countries so he could avoid the taxes the rest of us pay, but Giuliani? Paul? I expect something.

2007-09-18 06:04:06 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Elections

2007-09-18 06:03:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Polls & Surveys

2007-09-18 06:03:49 · 30 answers · asked by niceguy 2 in Singles & Dating

I've seen some that look like gigilos trying to pick up the bar whore.

Or guys with their own pictures that make you question their manhood.

Everyone should have a ferret avatar!!! Now that REALLY looks cool!!

2007-09-18 06:03:45 · 25 answers · asked by Philip McCrevice 7 in Other - Politics & Government

Actually, i'm not going to be dancing with my father (he passed away when i was young) but i will be dancing with my older brother who was like a father to me growing up. It can be a little upbeat or a slow one. I'm open for all options! Thanks!!

2007-09-18 06:03:28 · 42 answers · asked by GLM 1 in Rock and Pop

What is the funnist reason why a womens marriage can be affected because she is a immigrate

2007-09-18 06:03:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Whats the difference between Catholic and Protestant? Note. I'm talking about in the 15th century...

Thanks!

2007-09-18 06:03:27 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Religion & Spirituality

jesus explained it best here http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=john%208:44-45&version=9 and http://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=john%203:19-20;&version=9;

2007-09-18 06:03:15 · 32 answers · asked by Demon slayer 3 in Religion & Spirituality

Is your retirement based on this dynamic?

Can you see how repugnant this is yet?

2007-09-18 06:03:13 · 14 answers · asked by Kelly B 4 in Politics

2007-09-18 06:03:11 · 11 answers · asked by busybee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to know the answer i cant seem to find anything about it, neither do my parents, please help me!

2007-09-18 06:02:58 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender

2007-09-18 06:02:51 · 11 answers · asked by Jerry M 1 in Mythology & Folklore

Do they just help the engine breathe better? I have no idea. Thanks.

2007-09-18 06:02:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Maintenance & Repairs

For my boyfriends 27th birthday I am having him over for dinner for Crab legs. Any suggestions to make for sides?

2007-09-18 06:02:44 · 14 answers · asked by SanDiego 2 in Entertaining

i have already checked the web & local music stores to no avail.

2007-09-18 06:02:41 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Classical