I think society with a mixture of personal views have left me mentally a bit lost!
I fear marriage because i fear eventually i will want a divorce because i am a quitter and would happily walk out when the going gets tough. I fear divorce because i'm watching men around me have their lives torn apart...financially! To work for so much by yourself and then get screwed over, i heard one comedian call it "expensive prostitution"
Then people always say, well you dont have to get married you can be a partnership whatever, but i personally believe when i do have kids i want to be married, and if i said to my girl, i dont want to be married (because of the reasons above) that hardly shows i love her. Kind of undermines her etc etc. I have hurt my girl before and walked out (more than once) maybe that has an effect on me thinking well if i get married i might walk out again. But i keep going back because i love this person.
Only this situation hasnt just occured with this one person.
2007-09-16
07:25:00
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