My fiance and I were going over our wedding plans. We had both aggreed on 40 people max. I already scaled back my list, but now we are coming up with his list and it will put us over. When I mentioned this to him, he mentioned just getting married at the courthouse and having a recption later. I really don't want to go that route. I have considered scaling back my list more as I have some aunts, uncles, and cousins on it. My total guest count not including myself, him or the three kids is 18. He doesn't have any aunts, uncles, or cousins on his list, so according to Emily Post I shouldn't either, but that means I would only have my Matron of Honor her husband and 5 kids as I have no siblings; my grandparents are dead and my mom is not invited. Should I offer to cut my list to accomidate his even if it means having no family there except the one I am marrying into? He has not asked me to but we need to cut the guest list and they are so far away that they probally won't come..
2007-09-13
07:20:10
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