I met this girl on an on-line dating service , and over the course of a month we were talking on the phone a lot and went out a few times. We connect on every level and are very compatable. I knew right away I wasnt overly attracted to her but since all of my past girlfriends were really attractive and they didnt work out, I figured i'd go for the compatability thing. Well, now we've slept together once and she calls & texts me all the time and is making all sorts of plans for us. I really dont know how to handle this, she is super sweet and I know she has fallen for me & I dont want to hurt her. I could probably deal with not being totally physically attracted to her, but I really didnt enjoy the sex. And just so you know, I didnt initiate the sex, but I didnt do anything to say no. Im in my 30's and am triing to have a cautious approach to a realationship, im not triing to play games or sleep around, I just wanted to know all about it. Its not what I want. How can I not hurt her now?
2007-09-11
17:13:06
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CrAzY D
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