I have these wonderful friends that I met in college. Things were so GREAT with our friendship. These two good friends were there for me even at one of the most crucial times in my life. But now its been almost 9-10 years since I've known them. As our friendship went on, their was lot of jealousy. Careerwise, Relationships.....I admit I wasn't such a good friend. Now our friendship is drifting apart. An upcoming wedding that I wasn't invited to is tommorrow, and they are friends with the girl who is getting married, I was too. Now, I feel that they are so sick of me and my name dropping and acting spoiled that they are going to be friends with her and her new husband.
I played the piano at these wonderful friends' wedding when they asked me too. But now, Our friendship just seems one sided. They moved an hour away from here, it takes awhile for them to answer my calls. They get angry whenever I share good things in my life with them, they aren't happy for me.
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tommorrow these wonderful friends arranged a picnic, before the wedding. The girl getting married isn't going to be there. Should I go...one last time to salvage the friendship? should I tell them I'm really sorry for being such a bad friend, that I'm insecure and that's why I do all these things, name drop, like high-class things, talk about my family. Or should I just forget about and move on? They REALLY mean alot to me, but I don't know how much of this I can take anymore......trying so hard for it to be like it was before (or a little bit close, I understand of course that they are married now and live far away) when they used to come over every single day. But not keeping so much in touch......even if they are married......it shouldn't (ourfriendship) shouldn't change THIS much. What should I do?
(sigh) :(
2007-09-07
05:07:39
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