Hi everybody, it's been a while since I came on.
I got married 5 months ago and my relationship went badly downhill after.
He no longer respects me, he talks to me like a child, tells me to "f***ing shut up", he wouldn't help me when I got sick (he told me it was not his responsibility to take care of me or help me in any way). He is drinking all the time. He says the most awful things to/ about me in front of his friends when we're out, and then says "it was meant to hurt you, a good joke should hurt your feelings, you have to get used to my sense of humour, I can do and say whatever I like". He's not interested in sex anymore and is very controlling - won't let me use my cellphone, turns up at my friends houses when I'm there.
But I remember the man I fell in love with, and I miss him. I want to leave but I'm scared of regretting it after. My family is telling me I should get out now, which adds to the confusion.
Please help.
2007-09-07
06:02:41
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Jess*21*
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Marriage & Divorce