Ok, I am 25 and my husband is 41 years old. We've been married for 6 years, we do not have kids yet, but he has children from previous marriage. Every time I ask a question on yahoo answers I get really negative reaction from people , like "what are you doing with such an old man" or "how can he be so irresponsible to marry a twenty year old woman, he has children and needs to be a responsible father!" or " why would you marry an old man with kids" etc. Well, I married him because I love him, what's wrong with loving an older man? Yes, we have conflicts and we have problems and we work on them because we care about each other and we want to be together. Yes, sometimes it is hard to get along with him and we are different, we like different things and we have different opinions, but that happens in many marriages. So why are people so judgemental and criticize both of us just because he is older than me? I am in my twenties but it doesn't make me stupid or irresponsible!
2007-09-02
08:52:33
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