2007-09-02 08:52:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Its the right person some where for you... Keep looking....@
2007-09-02 08:57:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If for no other reason, live to figure out the answer to questions like that. You would be surprised how common a scenario that is (loving someone who is in love with someone else....it happens to nearly everyone, sometimes more than once.) True, it is not a good feeling, but it's definitely not a reason to stop living. It was a trial run at romance that didn't pan out, but continued living means you're due to experience the times when it really does work out well. That one reality alone is worth all the rehearsals you have to experience in the meantime.
DO you feel up for some irony right about now? Who'd expect a black man to agree with something said by a guy who calls himself "Racist Answer Man" but, I couldn't have said it better myself. His last statement says it all.
2007-09-02 16:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love someone and you want that that person should love you back, then you are not really loving that person…you are only loving yourself. If love someone then you want him/her to be happy and you are willing to sacrifice and set aside your own self, your own happiness for the happiness of the person you love.
The best thing that you can do is to be brave enough to tell the person what you felt for him/her but never expect anything in return. At least he/she knows rather than spending the rest of your life regretting that you did not told him/her.
Always remember that Love is magic … as the song goes …how do people find each other in a world that’s full of stranger. That is the point of living … to find the right person that God has prepared for you in this world filled with stranger.
Just a personal opinion … hope this helps =)
2007-09-02 16:13:00 · answer #3 · answered by LOI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not seem like this at the time, but life offers much more than just love. It's hard to just accept that, talk is cheap after all. What you need to do is focus past the problem, not on the problem.
Try keeping track of a journal: every day, before you go to sleep, write down what went well today, what made you happy today. For example, you can write down small things like: "I saw a squirrell today!" or bigger things, such as: "I felt my sister's baby kick in her stomach today!". It helps you focus on the stuff that makes life worthwhile. Start right now, as a matter of fact!
Of course, time is also a major healer.
Good luck.
2007-09-02 16:03:50 · answer #4 · answered by Chameleon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The point of living is that one day you will find a new love and then you will look back on this day and this board message and you will say the point of living is this person right now that I love. So hang in there because love hurts and it does get better and it will.You have just got to wait out the storm because that is what you are in now. Storms always pass. God Bless you!
2007-09-02 16:02:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a wonderful and mysterious part of life. I don't know what your age is but I am assuming your are younger. (Under 25?)
We've all been there one time or another throughout our lives. You may want to get out more with your friends and meet more people in the meantime. In time she may become "available" again. Remember there are a lot of fish in the sea! Try not to obsess over her. Good luck! Keep yourself busy!
2007-09-02 16:05:35 · answer #6 · answered by dizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as far as we know it beats the only known alternative.
That and the fact that you'll get tired of loving someone who doesn't return it.
Don't bother with a permanent solution to a temporary problem.
2007-09-02 15:56:47 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously very young. It is called LIFE!!! However, you cannot give up on love. You just have to continue until you find someone who feels the same way about you.
2007-09-02 15:58:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy do I know what your going threw...... I do too !! and my life sucks 2. and she has been married to this guy for several yrs. now 2...... I saw her yesterday with him at the club & she started talking to me like he wasn't there, which was strange because he was sitting right next to her. I'm wandering if she is happy with him ? and check this out>> she emailed me earlier and said in the email how it was so great to see me last night, I wanted to grab her and kiss her but I couldn't because he was right there. I know life does SUCK !!
2007-09-02 16:03:36 · answer #9 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's is definitely someone else who's meant for you and is still searching for you. I think that's reason enough for you to go on with your life.
2007-09-05 02:26:29 · answer #10 · answered by PEARLJAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh*
I'm in the exact same situation
The point of living is your friends and family
And there will be other people that you will fall in love with and they will love you back.
If this person doesn't love you...it simply wasn't meant to be
2007-09-02 15:58:29 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋