It's an on going fight between the two of us, because he "pays the bills and does so much for me" so that he feels like if he decides to use a little bit of cocaine every once in a while its ok because he's "not a crackhead, and he still takes care of his family and does what he has to do for us". I totally disagree, I don't care how much he does for us, it still doesn't make it right for him to do that. He knows I hate it, and he knows that when he does it I feel like he's cheated on me, that's how bad it upsets me. He'll hide it from me thinking I won't find out and when I do, it always goes back to him saying "I don't appreciate anything that he does for me". Because of this, I will go out with friends and I don't even like to be with him on the weekends when he's able to be with me, because I just feel so disrespected by him and I have so much anger towards him because of past times when he has done it. Does anyone have a similar problem? If so, how do you deal with this? Thanks..
2007-08-26
08:14:21
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Chrissy
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Marriage & Divorce