I am on a dating site, and time and time again I come up against the same problem. I'm not shallow, and I'm not looking for a gorgeous man, but I do like a man who dresses stylishly. I date men who say they fit my profile criteria, but when I meet them they are far from stylish. They don't seem to understand why its so important to me, but they ask for the same in a woman. I just want a man I can be proud to have on my arm, and someone who looks like he's made an effort for me. Is this so wrong, or do you think that women should just accept that fashion isn't important to men even though they like us to look sexy for them? I always make an effort for my man, and they always compliment me, but I wish just once I could open the door and think Wow! he looks sassy.
2007-08-26 08:14:38 · 4 answers · asked by pamperpooch39 5 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Just to add that character is the most important thing to me, but I don't think you should have to choose between one thing or the other. I think you need to fancy a person as well as respect them, or you'll end up looking elsewhere and I want my next partner to be the one I spend the rest of my life with
2007-08-26 08:18:59 · update #1
I don't think that you are shallow but that you know what attracts you to a man. Men should make the effort in the same that women do.
Make sure that on the dating site you are not sending mixed messages. For example if you indicate that you don't care how much a guy makes maybe the ones you are meeting can't afford to dress the way you want. If you like biker types, as an example, they may not have the same interest in fashion as you do.
Hang in there!
2007-08-26 08:28:59 · answer #1 · answered by Sunny 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a guy and I'm stylish. I like clothes to be fitted (not tight) and always dress to impress even if I am going to the supermarket. Some men think that by wearing something nice and clean they are becoming gay (thats worng) so they prefer the sassy baggy pants and the XXL shirt. In fact im 19 years old and sometimes for me is difficult to find a girl that likes my style, but most prefer the other type. My advise to you is to wait cause one day your going to find the right guy. Good luck.
2007-08-26 15:39:31 · answer #2 · answered by rodrigo a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not neccarsily cause u have 2 remember not everyone's the same and not everyone have the same favorites or likes the same thing
2007-08-26 17:35:45 · answer #3 · answered by kidd kidd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not wrong at all stylish men are sexiii
2007-08-26 15:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Queen of Hearts♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋