I've been in a relationship for 5 years in which we have a 2 yr old son. He has always had a problem when he drinks, starts trouble and emotionally completely abandons me. He has humiliated me, came at me like he was gonna hurt me, brakes items, runs out of the house overnight, this is all when he's drunk. The most recent time this happened was about 2 weeks ago I ended crying myself to sleep. I know he has a problem, we've been trying to work out the relationship but he always wants to drink, not a lot, he says a beer maybe two but I know that always leads to 3 then 4 and then out of control. He thinks I want to control him, but it's not a control thing it's a trust thing, I'm traumatized by the things he has done, and I don't feel comfortable when he drinks... he always ens up breaking my heart. Me imposing with his drinking has made him distance himself from me. Does he really have a problem, is he an alcoholic? What should I do, leave? Are my reasons justified?
2007-08-23
18:56:07
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Sweetie85
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Marriage & Divorce