I recently moved to a new community, soon after divorce. My situation was talked about and alot of people have this "they should take care of me" feeling.. I have made it clear (as clear as I can) that I am not interested in dating right now (at least in my community as that causes obvious problems).. As soon as I moved here, I was warned repeatedly to stay clear of a neighbor as he is known as a "drug lord" that can't be caught and I have heard his drunken rages next door.
I have steered clear - and do not talk. Once he came over and I just clearly told him to go home. Then, he began leaving vegetables and fruit from his garden on my porch. Yet, again, I have had this happen with other people who all assume a single mother must need help (I actually do okay)... so, I didn't respond.
Today, he brought more and left a note: " Don't freak out, I have no relationship with ____ ( a girl from our community) or any woman, you don't have to speak, if you don't want to, I just...
2007-08-19
04:44:17
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Wildflower
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Marriage & Divorce