yesterday i found out that my husband wanted to stay with his ex-wife because of the kids even when she wanted a divorce. he says he wanted to raise them properly, but he didnt get a chance. now they are not very well mannered. and he has to pay alimony money. of course he has nothing nice to say about his ex-wife. but i am thinking - is that because of the kids or could he still have feelings for her? i am very jealous that we dont have children of our own and she will always be the mother of his children. i have been physically sick because of this, it is driving me crazy, i lvoe my husband but i cant get it out of my head.
please, understand taht i know i might be wrong in this situation, but how do i get rid of this disgusting and very strong feeling that i am jsut a rebound and that that was the love of his life since they had kids together. I feel like i am fighting wtih ghosts and shadows and i will never win. my husband is already sick of my ****, but i cant get over it.
2007-08-19
23:45:13
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Marriage & Divorce