My husband & I are miserable. He will not go to counseling (we have in the past), he has stopped talking to me, has stopped having sex with me, & told me he is doing this as his way of coping with our "bad marriage." We have been together 5 years, & have been through a lot of cheating, abuse, & substance use on his part. He has stopped those things (abuse over one year, substance & cheating about two months). We recently moved to another state & we are both adjusting. I know he is struggling because he is "tempted" to do the wrong thing, but in his heart he truly does not want to go back to those wrong things. He will not seek counseling or help. We do not believe in divorce so please don't suggest that. What can I do? He & I both are greatly miserable. Other facts: We have one child & I am 6 months pregnant, he is 23, I am 31, he makes about 1/4 of what I do at my job and he has no regard for money. I am very angry because he literally spent our last $ at a strip club.
2007-08-14
02:30:01
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allie s
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Marriage & Divorce